How to be yourself. Why be yourself?

What is the main thing for you in this life? It would seem that it can be easier than to answer this question? For someone it is: money, quarry, family, children, art, friendship, etc. But there is one small nuance here, without which all of the above may be present in your life, but do not bring real pleasure. In order to fully enjoy all this, it is important to be yourself.

The world becomes more and more like a system where everyone lives and thinks as if according to a given algorithm. So, in order to gain freedom of will, the freedom to do in its own way and have its own point of view, it is necessary, first of all, to abandon such a thought: "If this is done, it means that I should". At the same time, refusing to his true, individual, putting on the mask and adjusting to other people.

We all want to be surrounded by real people, and not in the society of masks. People who are conscious, really comfortable to be with themselves, they have a healthy idea of \u200b\u200bthemselves and others. Such people take themselves and others, without condemnation, and with love. They do not worry and do not worry that others will think about them, understanding that everyone has its own right to their own opinion and actions.

Many live in some endless race for success, money, glory, seek to buy new things, cars, good apartments, phones of the last model, etc. And, looking at all this, it begins to seem that it is for this that we live.

However, all this is not too consistent with such concepts as individuality and freedom of choice. Leaving his real desires somewhere deep inside itself, many begin to adapt to these, imposed from the outside, goals. In addition, society does not like too much those who differ from the majority thinks not as everyone lives on generally accepted standards.

We all want to have a harmonious relationship with the surrounding. When we try to live in harmony with the expectations of other people, they themselves create a huge problem. In most cases, expectations will be unjustified.

So what to do, if you realize that I don't want to live all the time, pretending to someone who kickering your life and thoughts under the templates, putting on various masks. So, one day, you can completely forget who are you really.

People will not tell you frankly, how, in their opinion, you must be and what they want from you. If you never know exactly what kind of relationship you are with a person, how do you understand, how do you need to behave with him?

First of all, it is important to learn to listen to yourself, only you and no one knows what is good for you, and what is bad. Most work on hated work, learn where, where, they really do not want, they live with a person who have long been blown up.
It is never too late to correct this state of affairs, you just need to determine what you really want or wanted when it's a long time ago.
What you really like to do and what now bothers you to start doing this. Wherever you are, no matter how living, you can always find some kind of lesson in the soul, what you love or like.
Be yourself! No matter how naive it sounded. If others do not work out to make you be as they want to see you, whose problems are? These are their problems, not yours!

Being yourself in any situation, in fact, takes off the biggest tension. And so you never have to worry about being to those who you really are not.

It has long been concluded that we always give themselves the right to repeat the same errors or one and the same unpleasant experience before the accumulation of the required number of courage, determination and perseverance to find yourself, understand yourself, open in yourself and come to yourself true, true. Open God, Spirit, Creator.
Opening this condition, it does not matter what others think about you.

This does not mean that the position arises "I don't care what others will think," no, you just understand and accept the right of everyone to your own point of view and behavior.

Therefore, accumulate the necessary number of courage and stop following the rules, becoming a mystery to others. Start living non-standard, strain all your imagination to do not do as always. Be unique and outstanding. Be yourself.
Being yourself - this is, on the very matter, just.

Learn to be yourself - it means to take responsibility for your life on yourself.
Take responsibility for yourself for everything that happens in life. Clearly understanding and realizing that we literally create our own thoughts and actions, chatting with people, our activities, etc.

There is a wonderful way to communicate with every person. This is a way of impeccable communication - learn to perceive people as a mystery as a creator as a creator.

You are strongly liberated in the manifestation of yourself and will help another person to become myself, hereby, true. Your faith will help him show him the unique qualities and properties of God, Creator, Colder.

Treating in this way to each person who met a person, you will see if you have such people who meet you!

Be yourself! To be infectious! When other people see that you enjoy yourself and are happy about life, they will also want this!

Your environment generally affects your personality. It happens that the person is not interesting to you at all, and you for some kind of invented reasons continue to communicate with him, or you are in a circle of people whose interests and aspirations do not match yours at all.

In such cases, it is useful to think if you lose anything if these people do not become in your life. The answer is no, you will not lose, rather, even on the contrary, think about how much you will get: over time, those who will share your interests will take your point of view, not trying to change it, who will not need to pretend, and who will take you as you are.

Strive to spend time with those who have something to learn who is striving for something that is, and not with people who pull you down, just so you can fully develop and improve.

To live in harmony with the outside world, you are not obliged to change ourselves and "improve" to meet some generally accepted criteria, especially if they cause you doubts, it is then harmony with himself.

Try as possible to force yourself to do something, instead ask yourself: for the sake of what goal you are tolerate this and what will change if you stop doing it.? Avoid negative and negative people, as little as possible, lead a healthy lifestyle, do not say "yes" if I want to say "no", do not be afraid to express your opinion if it does not meet the opinion of the majority, travel, recognize the new, do your favorite thing , Read as many books on self-improvement books and personal growth.

Attaching such, it would seem insignificant, changes in our lives you will begin to change inside and free from old habits, and over time you will cease to worry that they will think about it.

If you are not satisfied with the life of a stranger, imposed on the rules, work on yourself, do not stop learning, acquire new skills and skills, become unique, become indispensable, and then the society will adapt to you, and not vice versa. Listen to your inner voice, and not to someone else's opinion.

Give yourself the right to be those who want to be doing what you want to do. To be with loved ones and loving people. To live in the place, in which your soul asks.
Remove the false and limiting beliefs in the fact that you can not, unable, are not capable. These are all your programs, fears and views that you can change, unless, of course, will have a strong desire.

Give yourself the right to be yourself. Allow yourself to manifest yourself true, present. Learn to certainly love yourself and other people. Remember that while we do not start doing differently, we will receive the same results and stand still.

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