Rule number 10. Meet, dear ... (meeting his relatives) So, you have been together for some time and he is ready to introduce you to his family. What's scary? In vain! His relatives are the same people as you and will not throw their fists at you for sure. Don't take the stories to be true

Rule No. 19. I'll upload you a scandal ... (about the art of swearing correctly) A scandal is scary. Each opens from a new side and sometimes crosses the border. How to make a scandal without consequences. Show him your character without being intimidated by your aggressiveness.

Rule number 40. Call me in the night, I will come ... (on how not to become a toy) Don't completely become it. You are alive and he is not alone in this world, even if so perfect. Don't let him use you - you are not a servant, not a sponsor, not a vest. You are a woman, beautiful and

Lesson 13 My strengths. Learning to correctly accept our mistakes Remember that we are still people, and people tend to make mistakes. Learn to love yourself, even if you are imperfect. This means - never criticize yourself, do not make excuses and do not regret that

From these words, every woman has treacherous shivers running through her whole body. There is no doubt that there will be opponents of all these romantic things, there is no doubt. But most of us girls dream about an offer, and most of those who don't dream just pretend. And we all expect something extraordinary, special, exceptional from this event.

We used to measure male love not by words, but by actions, and rightly so. Although the fact that you can live happily together without marriage is also true. But isn't this a man's act and is it not the highest manifestation of love - to declare his only one that he is ready to devote himself to her, raise children with her and take care of her in old age?

On the other hand, how many times in our entire life do we make or accept a marriage proposal? Rarely enough to remember this for a lifetime.

Method number 1. Romantic. A ring with a diamond in a glass of expensive champagne at a table in a chic restaurant to the accompaniment of a string quartet - and you are with a bouquet of a hundred red roses. Trivial? Classic! Any woman, without exception, will be happy with such an offer. Your half will gladly tell your daughter about this wonderful evening, having formed her impeccable taste preferences - worthy, attentive, a real man, the same as dad.

Method number 2. Cosy. If you are already building a family nest for two, furnish your beautiful home with an enviable sense of style and love spending time alone with each other more than anything else, it would be natural to offer in a comfortable environment for both of you. Prepare delicious dinner(this method assumes that you know how to do it), fill a fragrant bath, pave its way with candles and rose petals, turn on your favorite music and expect your one with the coveted box and her favorite flowers.

Method number 3. Publicly. An offer on a scoreboard during a hockey or football match, on a movie screen instead of a trailer or on a theater stage, on the radio or in her favorite magazine, at a concert of your favorite band or at a KVN game - declare your love out loud. The main thing is that your beloved is not shy about showing feelings in crowded places, otherwise you may not hear the hotly desired “I agree” not because she is against, but because of elementary embarrassment. Another option is a flash mob: dancing or depicting your hearts, in which you can involve your friends or even strangers.

Method number 4. Symbolic. Offer your hand and heart exactly when your chosen one expects it the most. The anniversary of your acquaintance, her birthday, Valentine's Day or any other, but very special date for you two, every time gives your girlfriend a thrill of expectation, do not disappoint her. Not only the date should be special, the place should be symbolic, perhaps the place of your meeting or the first kiss, the details that you carefully preserved, and the words with which you tell the unique story of your love.

Method number 5. Handmade. Your proposal can accompany anything: a sensual handwritten letter, a romantic video, with my own hands a baked cake with a lucky piece where a ring is hiding, a beautiful song written for your future wife or an exciting quest around historical places for your relationship with a treasure of diamonds in the finale. The more effort you put into your gift, the more pleasant it will be for the recipient, a great offer for couples who love unusual surprises.

Method number 6. Extreme. After a joint parachute jump, among corals while diving, on the top of the highest mountain before a steep descent on a snowboard, sailing on the finish line of a regatta or on a race track - if your sweetheart is in love with extreme dates, this is exactly what the doctor prescribed. A stylish engagement ring will only add adrenaline, making this day not only special, but the most memorable in her life, unless for the wedding itself you have planned bungee jumping instead of a banquet.

Method number 7. Exotic."Will you marry me?" on the white sands of the Caribbean coast, “Become my wife” on such an exquisite and elegant Eiffel Tower, “Together and forever” on the rice terraces of exotic China. The most beautiful proposal, made in the most beautiful place in the world, what your love deserves. Having received a positive answer, you can immediately organize a wonderful wedding for two without fuss, hundreds of guests and a hackneyed script. Only your warmth, non-trivial concept and local flavor.

Method number 8. Family. A great idea for lovers whose families are already very friendly or have long wanted to get to know each other better. Gather parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters at the same table and in the presence of those who are not dearer, declare that now you are all one big family... An engagement is a separate occasion for a holiday, not as magnificent as a wedding, but homely and cozy and a great opportunity to bring your childbirth together, and even more precisely, the future grandmothers and grandfathers of your kids.

Method number 9. Epic. For enthusiastic natures - a thematic proposal on a grand scale. It can be a sentence exactly like your favorite movie or book, or based on it, in the style of "Twilight" or "Game of Thrones", for example. If you met at shooting training, it can be a knightly tournament for the heart of a beautiful lady; in a tango lesson - recreate the atmosphere of Argentina in a stone jungle; for English courses - Throw a noisy party in an Irish pub. To make the proposal epic, you will definitely need the help of friends, or even an event service; it would not hurt to consult an event manager in other cases as well.

Method number 10. Drawing. For lovers with a healthy and similar sense of humor. The main thing here is not to overdo it and not let it slip. Perhaps you invite your future wife to the theater, where the performance will be about you, save someone (whose pocket will have a ring) life in front of her eyes, or persuade a dozen volunteers to give her little unexpected gifts on the eve of the main thing. Let your prank be harmless, and her tears - from happiness, in no case from fear or shame. And in this case, and in all other nine, be sure to invite a photographer and videographer, the proposal is undoubtedly something that should be captured!

Men, put all your love into the proposal, that's when it will be the best. And you women, answer with a firm “Yes!”, Because now you know how much it costs men in every sense. My husband used method # 7, and what suggestions were there in your life?

She dreams of hearing from her beloved. And naturally everyone worries about this moment, prepare carefully, coming up with a special way to make the recognition more sophisticated and romantic. Alternatively, you can make a marriage proposal, saying it in different languages ​​of the world... I am sure that your beloved will be impressed and in return she will only give her consent. Since these wonderful words love sounds no less beautiful in different languages ​​of the world.

Several translation options into different languages ​​of the world of the marriage proposal

Azerbaijani- Mənə ərə gələrsən?
Albanian - Ju martohesh me mua?
English - Will you merry me?
Belarusian - Do you marry mean?
Bulgarian - Is Omjish for Men?
Hungarian - Hozzám jössz feleségül?
Vietnamese - Bạn lập gia đình tôi?
Dutch - Je met me trouwen?
Greek - Μπορείτε να με παντρευτείς?
Danish - Du gifte dig med mig?
Indonesian - Anda menikah?
Irish - Bpósfaidh tú mé?
Icelandic - Þú gifta mig?
Spanish - Te Casas Conmigo?
Italian - Lo sposerete?
Chinese - 你 願意 嫁給 我?
Korean - 당신 은 나와 결혼?
Latvian - Jūs precēties mani?
Lithuanian - Jūs marry me?
Macedonian - Ty me?
Malay - Anda berkahwin?
Maltese - You jiżżewġu me?
German - Willst Du mich heiraten?
Norwegian - Du gifte deg med meg?
Polish - Wyjdziesz za mnie?
Portuguese - Queres casar comigo?
Romanian - Tu te căsătoreşti cu mine?
Russian - Will you marry me?
Serbian - Wi me udati?
Slovak - Vezmeš si ma?
Slovenian - Se poročila z mano?
Thai - คุณ แต่งงาน กับ ฉัน?
Turkish - Filler menim dostumdur?
Ukrainian - Ti viydesh for me zamіzh?
Finnish - Haluatko naida minut?
French - Veux-tu m "épouser?
Hindi - क्या तुम मुझसे शादी?
Croatian - Vi se udati za mene?
Czech - Vezmeš si mě?
Swedish - Du gifta dig med mig?
Estonian - Sa minuga abielluda?
Japanese - Watashito kekkon shite kuremasuka (あ な た は 私 と 結婚 す る)?

You have waited! He is ready to offer you his hand and heart. What to do now? First, agree. Secondly, react calmly and show that you only need him, and not a lilac stamp in your passport. And thirdly, just rejoice, only quietly, your happiness.

And now the very day has come when he proposes to you.

It can happen anywhere and at any time. Remember that your man himself is now shaking like a hare in the forest. That's it, his free life ends, and he wants and injects ... He most likely does not even know exactly how to make an offer, and is afraid that you will say "no", that you will say "yes" and that in general what -you say.

Therefore, be calm, and do not push him directly "to these very" words. Be careful and do not show that you see his excitement and understand what it is connected with. After he can still squeeze out the cherished "be my wife" or "marry me", you simply and calmly, but, of course, with a happy smile on your face, tell him: "Yes."

There is no need to squeak with delight, jump or, on the contrary, mince and mutter something like: “Well, I don’t know ... I have so many proposals, I don’t even know what to tell you.”

There is no need to waste time and pretend to be no one knows what. We all know that men are completely insane at such moments and can regard such words as anything - refusal, mockery of his feelings, and so on.

You and I, too, at such moments can be shaken, flattened and sausage, in a youthful way. Firstly, because we are more emotional and react more strongly to everything, and secondly, at such a serious moment it is impossible not to worry, this is understandable and so.

By the way, the proposal may not sound. Men love to delay this wonderful moment.

It is allowed to playfully climb onto his lap and, with a sly smile, ask what he is hiding from you, while treating him with a glass of champagne.

Well, if the offer has sounded, then you do not need to immediately rush to call all your friends and parents to tell them that you have decided to get married.

There is also no need to rush in a rush to choose a dress and shoes.

Sit with him, discuss the details, do your favorite thing, the main thing is for him to feel that you do not need the status of a married woman, but he himself - with all his flaws and cockroaches in his head.

Because immediately after a man made an offer, all sorts of contradictory thoughts begin to swarm in his head: but maybe it was not necessary ... no, or it is necessary ... To avoid such thoughts - stay with him ...