Where are the souls of unborn children. Where do unborn babies go? How to protect yourself from psychotrauma

I just found this:

Metropolitan Hilarion of Volokolamsk delivered a lecture on death to students of the St. Dimitry School of Mercy. In it, he, in particular, said where the souls of infants and unborn children killed by abortion go. Metropolitan Hilarion reported that, according to Saint Gregory of Nyssa, the idea of ​​posthumous retribution cannot be applied to infants, since they did not commit either good or evil deeds.
Sin, according to Gregory of Nyssa, is a disease, and the enjoyment of heavenly goods requires deliverance from this disease. He wrote that "a baby who was not tempted in evil, since no illness interferes with the communion of the light in his spiritual eyes, remains in a natural state, having no need for cleansing to restore health, because in the beginning he did not accept illness into his soul."
However, according to Saint Gregory of Nyssa, a person who died in adulthood and lived a virtuous life will receive greater bliss. Because if the righteous were not rewarded with greater bliss compared to babies, it would turn out that it would be better either not to be born at all, or to die right away, than to lead a virtuous life.
Metropolitan Hilarion said: “Here we are talking about both those who died in infancy and those who were killed in the womb. Saint Gregory of Nyssa does not see any fundamental difference in the fate of both, except that the former are degraded from life by the ineffable Providence of God, while the blame for the death of the latter lies entirely with the parents. "
And when asked why God takes babies away, Saint Gregory of Nyssa answered like this: perhaps the Lord knew that this child would become a bad person, and therefore sent him an early death.
To the question of how the fate of baptized babies differs from unbaptized babies, according to Metropolitan Hilarion, there is no unequivocal answer in the Orthodox tradition. Saint Gregory of Nyssa does not specifically raise the question of the fate of unbaptized infants.
In the Synaxaria of the Sabbath meat-emptying it is said that baptized babies will enjoy the sweets of paradise, while the unenlightened and pagan will not enjoy sweets, nor will they go to fiery hell.
“The question thus remains open, and the fate of unbaptized babies is entrusted to the all-good Providence of God. In any case, the Orthodox tradition is alien to the opinion of Latin scholasticism that unbaptized babies are doomed to stay in a section of hell specially designated for them, ”says the text of the report of Metropolitan Hilarion, which is posted on the website of the Department for External Church Relations of the Moscow Patriarchate.

Unborn babies are a very delicate and painful topic for many women. There is a lot of silence, shame, pain, guilt and fear around her ... We want to help you free yourself from these experiences and heal your relationship with unborn children.

“Regardless of how a woman consciously treats the termination of pregnancy - regrets it or considers it an ordinary matter, at the subconscious level, negative changes take place in her psyche: a deep feeling of pain, grief and guilt settles there, because by nature a woman is called to be mother. Even if she consciously says that it is normal to terminate a pregnancy, at the subconscious level, she still feels pain and loss. "

Bert Hellinger

Who needs it

The webinar will help you if:

• an abortion has occurred in your life;
• you feel guilt towards unborn children and the pain of loss;
• after the termination of pregnancy, you have problems with women's health, relations with your spouse have deteriorated and problems in life have begun;
• you want to restore relationships with the souls of unborn children;
• your family has difficulties with childbirth;
• in your family, the “victim-aggressor” program is clearly expressed in the relationship;
• you have unborn brothers or sisters and you feel that they influence your life;
• you often feel guilty "for no reason" - or for not being born;
• you have a difficult and painful relationship with your parents;
• you want to help the souls of your unborn brothers and sisters;
• you know that there are unborn children in your family;
• there are ancestors in your family who aborted pregnancy (doctors, healers);
• you want to help the souls of your unborn ancestors and heal your kind.

The connection of the unborn child with the clan, with future generations is manifested even several centuries later, this is confirmed by the constellations according to the method of Bert Hellinger.

In this kind:

• extinction programs appear (children stop coming to birth, miscarriages occur, miscarriages, ectopic pregnancies, stillborn children, early deaths of children);
• infertility and serious diseases of the reproductive system of women are manifested, which prevent conception;
• the unfortunate fate of the members of the clan;
• the feeling of a “vicious circle” in the family - an interrupted pregnancy often binds people from incarnation to incarnation, preventing them from leaving, so that they can correct what they have done;
• weakening of the energy of the clan, poverty, disease;
• hereditary victim-aggressor program;
• family suicide;
• unhappy marital relationship;
• "Wrong" love of parents for children - it is either too little or too much;
• difficult and painful relationship between parents and children.

“The constellations show that aborted children, as a rule, agree with their fate, they are more worried about the attitude of the living towards them. A child remains a child, whatever his fate. And a mother remains a mother, even if she did not have time to bestow her love on the child. After a woman recognizes an aborted child, she has a desire to look at her partner. This gives the strength to continue the relationship, but now in a slightly different way. Living children are freed from an unbearable burden - to take care of or replace aborted children. And again they will be able to take mother's love. This means that life can go on. "

Marta Lukovnikova, child and family psychologist

Webinar Topics

• What is an interrupted pregnancy from an energetic point of view
• How does it affect the fate of the parents of an unborn child and the entire family
• How to heal the uterus after termination of pregnancy
• How to free yourself from feelings of pain, guilt, fear and shame due to an aborted pregnancy
• How to restore a loving relationship with the soul of an unborn baby
• How to restore a relationship with the child's father
• How an interrupted pregnancy affects babies already born
• What happens to children born after her
• What to do if you have unborn siblings
• How to heal your family from the consequences of an abortion

Experience and competence

The topic of unborn children is very important for my family. I have unborn siblings and my grandmothers had aborted pregnancies. Therefore, I was looking for ways for myself how to heal relationships with the souls of unborn children, how to help them and my ancestors.

Often children, after the birth of which the mother had interrupted pregnancies, live with a constant feeling of guilt, which seems to be for no reason outwardly, and do not allow themselves to live in full force. So it was in my life. After the practices, my inner state has changed a lot: now I feel calm, I have ceased to be tormented by bouts of constant feelings of guilt, I allowed myself to rejoice and enjoy life.

As a psychologist and energy therapist in working with clients with a similar request, I became convinced of the effectiveness and necessity of such work.

I will share my knowledge and proven techniques:

• to restore the flow of the energy of love in the family, including the practice of accepting the excluded;
• to heal relationships with the souls of unborn children (brothers, sisters and other ancestors), including the practice of repentance and reconciliation, the practice of meeting the first woman to terminate a pregnancy in the family;
• to heal the clan from negative programs and scenarios associated with childbirth and marital relationships, including the practice of forgiving oneself.

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The Bible makes it clear that the unborn child developing in the womb means much more to Jehovah God than just embryonic tissue. Inspired by God, King David wrote: “Your eyes have seen even my embryo, and all its particles are inscribed in your book” (Psalm 139: 16, NM). Thus, the Creator considers even the embryo to be a separate person, a living person. For this reason, he established that the person who harms the unborn child must be held accountable. --Exodus 21:22, 23. Yes, from God's point of view, killing an unborn child is like encroaching on human life. Therefore, if a girl wants to please God, then she will not consider abortion a matter of choice, even if she is under pressure.

God's Word provides the comforting hope of the resurrection, as well as life in wonderful conditions in a righteous new world that will soon come under the rule of God's Kingdom (2 Peter 3:13). About what God will do for people at that time, the Bible says: “Will wipe ...

I just found what I found: Metropolitan Hilarion of Volokolamsk delivered a lecture on death to the students of the St. Dimitry School of Mercy. In it, he, in particular, said where the souls of infants and unborn children killed by abortion go. Metropolitan Hilarion reported that, according to Saint Gregory of Nyssa, the idea of ​​posthumous retribution cannot be applied to infants, since they did not commit either good or evil deeds.

However, according to Saint Gregory of Nyssa, a person who died in adulthood and lived a virtuous life ...

A disaster struck in our family: my brother's wife, at the 8th month of pregnancy, had a placental abruption (the fetus itself got tangled up with the umbilical cord and slowly tore it off, and eventually died of starvation). They made her a cesarean, took out a child. The girl was returned to us, we gave her a name and buried her.
And now the question arose: how to pray for the girl, because she, in fact, was not born? Is it possible and necessary to write her name when submitting a note for the repose?

student

Brest, Belarus

Dear Olga, about the afterlife fate of babies who did not come into this world by the permission of God, or even by human intent, the Church does not make her own definite judgment, but trusts in the mercy of God. Since these babies, neither independently nor through the recipients, entered the fence of the Church, church prayer is not performed for them, therefore, it is not necessary to submit notes about them. But we believe that by the providence of God for such babies heavenly abodes are prepared, where they and ...

Metropolitan Hilarion of Volokolamsk delivered a lecture on death to students of the St. Dimitry School of Mercy. In it, he, in particular, said where the souls of infants and unborn children killed by abortion go. Metropolitan Hilarion reported that, according to Saint Gregory of Nyssa, the idea of ​​posthumous retribution cannot be applied to infants, since they did not commit either good or evil deeds.

Sin, according to Gregory of Nyssa, is a disease, and in order to enjoy heavenly goods, deliverance from this disease is required. He wrote that "a baby who was not tempted in evil, since no illness interferes with the communion of the light in his spiritual eyes, remains in a natural state, having no need for cleansing to restore health, because in the beginning he did not accept illness into his soul."

However, according to Saint Gregory of Nyssa, a person who died in adulthood and lived a virtuous life will receive greater bliss. Because if the righteous did not ...

I looked through the sites. Here is what I found: (this is about children who were not aborted, but who died in the womb for various reasons)

Not only is it possible, but it is also necessary to pray for these children at home! Babies who died in the womb of their mothers bear the original sin, they are not washed with the holy water of Baptism, and therefore especially need motherly prayers.

And there are prayers for unborn children.

Prayer for babies who died in the womb
(compiled by Metropolitan Gregory of Novgorod and St. Petersburg)

Remember, Human-loving Lord, the souls of the departed slaves of Your babies, who in the womb of their Orthodox mothers died accidentally from unknown actions, or from a difficult birth, or from some negligence. To baptize them, O Lord, in the sea of ​​Thy compassions and save them with Thy ineffable goodness.

Mother's Home Prayer for Stillborn Children
(compiled by Hieromonk Arseny Afonsky)

Lord, have mercy on my children who have died in my womb! For my faith and my tears, for the sake of Thy mercy, O Lord, do not deprive ...

Question to the priest: I am tormented by the question, when a woman had an abortion, where does the baby's soul go - to hell or heaven?

Fr. Maxim Kaskun. You know, there are now such false Orthodox activists who believe that aborted babies go to hell. Can you imagine, huh? A child who has not done anything, who, according to the teachings of the Orthodox Church, is generally sinless, he is betrayed by his own mother, he experiences not only grief, death, terrible pain from wounds, when he is torn to pieces, he also experiences a severe mental trauma that the place that was his protection and stronghold betrayed him.

And in such a state, he comes out of this world and, through the love of our Lord, goes straight to hell! Stupid, huh? Therefore, we pray for unbaptized babies, for them you can light a candle in the church. We cannot pray for them at the proskomedia, because they are not baptized, although John Chrysostom says that even for heretics in the Sacraments one must pray. But,…

REFLECTIONS ABOUT UNBORN CHILDREN

I noticed that all supporters
abortion–these are people who have already been born.

(R. Reagan)

Mom says

When you were a point in me
(your father then insisted)
we thought about you, daughter, –
to leave or not to leave?

Loose your braids
clear your memory
and your questions today:
"To leave or not to leave?"
(A. Voznesensky)

Goodbye, unborn Alyoshka ...

Goodbye, unborn Alyoshka,
I couldn't save you.
No wonder that night on the window
a teardrop of rain crawled.

No wonder it is harsh and dull
the brain fluttered: "Wait!"
And pain like a blind old woman
pushed and pushed in front of me.

Goodbye unborn boy
my anxiety and sorrow,
nothing in our life came out.
It's a pity. Desperately sorry.

Dry eyelashes are covered
fearless bitter chest ...
You will, Alyoshka, I dream,
to bend my head to the ground.
(I. Yavorovskaya ■ )

Confession of the unborn

I am unwanted and alien in the world,
I am a simple embryo: either a son or a daughter,
And no one will answer for me.

I dream to look sweet mom in the eyes
And lightly tug on the braids,
Not born yet, but already – fidget,
And already my life is in question.

I would like to play football with my dad,
Study insects under a magnifying glass,
Only everything has been decided. But in the soul the protocol
Introduced forever: "this is stupid"!

Tomorrow will be the finale of my small life,
I will still be happy immeasurably
Let's go with mom together – together we are bolder
And she will be glad, probably.

No one can and should not help me,
If I'm a burden to mom and dad,
Unborn son, unborn daughter –
Only a pole is at their stage.

I don’t hold any grudge, but it’s insulting to tears:
There was no better life for me
How can I tell them now that I loved them seriously,
And that I wanted to live so painfully ...

(I. Gendler ■ )

Emptiness

The hospital is clean and warm.
Girls get abortions.
They sigh heavily
But after a day it hardly hurts.

In the ward, laughter and chatter,
And they watch TV shows in the lobby
And after three or four days
They don't feel sorry for anything anymore.

Fear and nausea disappeared
And even the body became lighter
But he's so empty
What not to fill with the series ...

(T. Zalesskaya ■ )

Abortion

Ah, honey, wipe a tear
I will help you with advice
This is not the first year I am good at this
And I'll tell you what:

I understand like no one:
Pregnancy is "out of the question" for you,
You didn't want her right now
And maybe ... not from that!

After all, at stake: Career, Sports,
Or maybe: Performances, Filming ...
Where to think about the child here ?!
Only abortion can save here!

Ah, I hear the right question:
"Silence or tell everything to her husband?"
I will answer: "There is no need to speak,
Don't let your nose stick in here! "

Someone will begin to whine, loving:
“Give birth! We can do everything! "
And he will continue to live, bastard,
Taking care of you.

And besides: there is need around,
Plus instability at work ...
If you don't think about abortion,
Who needs you with a child ?!

So that he lived like "3rd grade"?
So that everyone around him spits
And reproached for the castoffs?
No, no, decide to have an abortion!

There are a lot of people like you in the country,
Whom I paved the way ...
But an agreement: not a word - to God!
Trust me - Satan!

(Yu. Sergeev ■ )

What a scary word - abortion ...

The child was thrown away, as if a little thing ...
As if children are a soulless, low grade ...
Rejected! .. as a subject unit.

What a terrible word - a-b-o-ort!
The child was torn by ticks bit by bit ...
And rubbed, gloating, the damn devil's palms:
- Forgotten commandments of God!

... People are losing human faces.

(N. Samoniy ■ )

Let's sign how you have an abortion!

I didn't expect what that would say ...
And immediately the light faded in her eyes ...
He called me in marriage, and even confessed his love,
But after this phrase, the collapse is visible
Their stormy and passionate romance ...
"Let's sign how you will have an abortion!"
I wanted to shout: "I won't kill !!!",
But as if a beautiful mouth had gone numb ...
He continued to admonish stubbornly,
Asserting that the time has not come
And convincing that he is right, no doubt,
I didn't understand what happened ...
Promising her mountains of gold,
Love to the grave, demanded in return
Just agree to an abortion ... for the first time
He heard a resolute: "No!"

... Years passed, he grew old and drank himself to death,
Having wasted my youth in gulba,
And she had a beautiful son,
And everything turned out in the girl's fate!
(L. Shahbazyan ■ )

I AM – a child not born into the world ...

I AM – a child who was not born into the world.
I AM – a rootless soul named "NO".
I AM – a prickly chill in the soul of a doctor,
A knot cut from the shoulder by people.

May it be easy for you, father and mother
Live like everyone else and understand nothing.
Anyway, I love you the most,
Even if you have forgotten this sin.

(A. Orlova-Novopoltseva)

If God gives ...

Flight is assigned to the wings,
So it was from the beginning and up to now.
Don't cry if God gives
It is much more terrible if He takes away.

Life rules in different ways,
And I have no right to condemn.
But it is better to give up the living,
Than forever remember how she killed ...

Somewhere there are unborn children ...

Somewhere there are unborn children ...
Heaven prophesies their birth.
Pure souls in rainbow light
While improving, they are waiting for incarnation.
They look from above, get acquainted with mom.
They see dad - the one who will become.
And the most amazing moment
They are welcoming to Earth.
Not born, once ready
Become human ... Every child wants
To know everything ... And a smile, and a word,
The world for them is both transparent and subtle.
Weightless, so far airy -
The essence and meaning in an unknown circle.
They really don't need much.
Only love and reliable hands.
Heaven will give them the rest.
And they will add happiness to parents,
Sharing with someone the earthly good,
A person has the right to be happier.
Why are you delaying, mothers?
Daddies, mothers, do not ruin your hopes.
Somewhere out there, through the heavenly frames
Looks your most needed and gentle.
There are unborn children somewhere
With the expectation "I will - I will not."
Who, tell me, is responsible for this?
Let a good miracle happen ...

(M. Borina-Malkhasyan ■ )

Es koennte so sein ...

So it could be ...

The young lady climbed into her elegant Audi, got behind the wheel, threw back her head and closed her eyes. The picture was clear and crisp.

A charming little girl in a lovely pink dress runs towards her and joyfully shouts: “Mom is coming! Mum has come home!" The lady smiles and takes out a beautiful doll from her bag: "Look, what I have here!" “Oh, how great! Thank you mom, thank you! I will call her Tilda, ”the baby rejoices. Her soft little hands wrap around her mother's neck, and plump lips kiss her on the cheek. The baby's golden curls are curled with beautiful rings, her baby skin exudes a delicate scent ...

First day of school. With two large white bows, her daughter looks like a little princess. With a huge bag of sweets and a knapsack on her back, she runs up to her mother and tells her lively about the school, about the teacher, about the children she met today. And then they both walk hand in hand along the linden avenue. "Shall we have a couple of scoops of ice cream?" - the lady winks at her daughter, passing by a cozy ice cream parlor. "Yes!" - the little princess shouts enthusiastically. - "Yes!" And her eyes shine with joy ...

The lady enters the room cautiously. A fifteen-year-old girl is sitting by the window. Her blond hair hung down like straw, her gaze faded. "What happened to my little mouse?" The lady asks sympathetically. “Ah, mom! He went to a party with Hannah! " The girl's voice trembles, tears run down her cheeks. "Stop it, my dear!" - consoles her mother. “He will probably realize very soon that you are much better, smarter and more reliable than this Hannah. Well, if he doesn't know how to appreciate it, then he just isn't worth your tears, right? " "Ah, mom!" - the girl begins to smile. - "You are my best friend!" ...

So it could be ...

The lady opened her eyes and took a last look at the clinic, where she got rid of pregnancy a few hours ago.

( O. Seitz, p Author's translation ■ )