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A letter came to our editorial office. Ordinary, in an envelope. The handwriting, I must say, is so-so. A letter from a certain Lyuda Skorlupkina. She writes completely unimaginable things. Words cannot describe how awful! Man has nothing sacred! I don't like New Year, he says! But something we are too agitated ... Here, read it better yourself.

Hello , dear edition of "Cosmo Ural"! I am writing to you for the first time and immediately with a claim. Why do you pay so much attention to the New Year? Is this holiday so wonderful to prepare for it already in August? What did everyone find in it? Personally, I just hate him ... Why, you ask? As in the song: "And you have five reasons for that." Here they are:

It is extremely disgusting to celebrate the New Year alone.

Believe me, I know it happened. It's disgusting when you boyfriend-girlfriend and suddenly - hop! - quarreled exactly before December 31. You sulk at each other, and each secretly prepares a gift and wants the opposing side to surrender and call ... But he is holding on with his last strength. And then the chimes are striking, the president is making a toast, and you are alone! It's horrible.

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But it is even more terrible when you are just alone ... Nobody quarreled with you, nobody met you. You are a lone bird in the urban jungle, and whatever you cook, you can eat it yourself. And you will clink glasses with Dmitry Anatolich. And you will cry. About how you hate the New Year.

New Year is killing my diet.

For some reason in our country it is so customary that seeing off the old and meeting the new year is a celebration of the belly. Tables crash, cheeks swell, skirts-trousers crack at the seams. And I cannot sacrifice my tortured, long-suffering figure for the sake of table madness! You can't eat it in such quantities and in this order, and in general for so long! But you can't get out - the New Year without Olivier and without caviar on a bun does not seem to be considered a New Year either. The rating is unsatisfactory! And then my waist is unsatisfactory! Wow, I hate New Years!

New Year is robbing me clean.

The New Year is celebrated as if one day, but the money goes away as in a month of life. It all starts, of course, with the pranksters from the trade union committee, who go with their extortions: "for champagne", "for a gift to the boss" ... Ugh. Then tantrums begin under the name “Have you bought gifts?”. After work, you run around like a bunny from an advertisement, and beat the drum from the prices of all these trinkets. And you buy anyway, because you don’t give New Year's presents to everyone, everyone, everyone, these everyone, everyone, everyone will be offended. For life.

But gifts were bought with a sin in half. In bulk sizes. The next torture is to buy food for the festive table. Welcome to hell called supermarket and hypermarket! Wherever you go, it’s the same thing: a crowd of possessed people are taking everything off the shelves. And it seems to be not free (not even free at all!), But excitement, as if everything is being stocked up for the last time.

And finally, you need to look accordingly, you want to spend the holiday as a well-groomed fashionista, so you try, you run around shopping centers in search of a dress. In parallel with you, the same unfortunate people are running, you already recognize each other ... One gets the feeling that your dress is specially hidden in the farthest corner, and on the price tag every day they add another zero ... Uff, I found it, I pulled it out. I signed up for the salon for styling, also with a fight, although in the salon the prices were raised so that they were about to fly into the sky. Tired. I hate New Years.

It would be better if this day did not exist! Everyone would wake up at once on the second day, cheerful! In sound mind and clear memory and without feeling the presence of internal organs. That would be beauty! And not what it really is: you wake up, it’s dark, it’s like a company of soldiers spent the night in the apartment ... And, most likely, then they moved into your head, otherwise why is there ringing in your ears, and the taste of iron on your tongue?

With difficulty I roll over on the other side, cover myself with a blanket. Forgetting ... It was not there: the call! If Santa Claus calls to inquire about my health, I will tell him everything I think about the New Year. Namely, that I hate him!

In preparation for the New Year, the MCH will not strike a finger on a finger.

If I did not celebrate the New Year alone, then even then the New Year infuriated me. Because I did everything myself, all the preparation fell on my fragile, 42nd size, shoulders! From cooking to cutting snowflakes, from washing floors to ordering Santa Claus at home! And MCH wandered around the apartment, watched "The Irony of Fate" or whatever, chewing tangerines ... I was silent, I thought he would understand that he could help, but no, he did not understand!

By midnight, I was so exhausted that when it came time to clink glasses and light sparklers, I didn't care. But the MCH energy was beating over the edge! Then I could not resist and showed him such sparklers that, I think, he twitched for a long time. We parted. But he was a good guy ...

Dear editors! I hope you will take my letter seriously. There are many more reasons why I hate the New Year, I even think to write a dissertation about it ... I wonder if you can find something to argue with me?

We passed this letter from hand to hand, groaned, gasped and did not know what to answer. How can you not love the New Year? It’s the same as not to love… here at this point we stumbled. Because they didn’t come up with anything that we all would love. Except for life. Therefore, we decided not to flog a fever and answer point by point.

Editorial response

Dear Luda! We are very glad to receive your letter, honestly and honestly! You opened our eyes! You say that you do not like the New Year, and, perhaps, our other readers too. So, we just have to write about it! Although ... do you really not love him, and in general, is that the point? Let's figure it out.

It is extremely disgusting to celebrate the New Year alone.

Indeed, the New Year is a collective holiday. One is boring. But in addition to a loved one, who at the time of December 31 may not be "at hand", there are friends, parents and a great many relatives! One of the workers of our valiant editorial office, Ksenia, also met the last New Year without MCH: the last one disappeared, and the new one did not have time to appear. And now, sit down, take a basin and cry a liter of tears into it, how lonely and unhappy you are, there is no one to pity you? So there will be no one! Because only an experienced burglar can find you in an apartment with seven locks, and we suspect you don’t need such a MCH… You have to go to people, and not play recluse! Here our Ksyusha met that New Year with her family, and then went to her friend, because she had a spontaneous party. While getting to her, about 55 complete strangers managed to congratulate her, right on the street. 50% of them asked for her phone number, 10% got the coveted number (if you want to stretch your brains, count how many lucky people she gave the number; the answer is at the end of the article). And one even gave a rose. Frozen but sweet.

What's that! We swear, a real case that happened to one of our acquaintances, Anna: she also celebrated the New Year without a young man in the absence of one. In the company of friends, she went to Ploschad 1905 Goda to drink champagne "with the people" at midnight. If you have ever celebrated the New Year on 1905 Square, you have a good idea of ​​how many of these people are there! Well, at 12 o'clock, hip-hip-hurray, Anya is drinking champagne, kissing on the cheek with friends. And then the neighbor on the right (well, how else to call him? - Neighbor in the Square!) Looks attentively at Anya and says: "And me?" Anya did not even understand right away and therefore answered in Odessa, with a question to the question: "What about you?" - "Kiss in honor of the New Year!" Anya thought for a second and kissed him on the cheek ... So they live. They laugh, kiss, both are satisfied. So do not play alone at home on New Year's Eve! Company and company again!

New Year is killing my diet.

And here, Lyudochka, you are dissembling! Nobody makes you overeat! The New Year can be turned into a celebration of gluttony, but this is not his fault. And by the way, nothing will happen to you if you eat lean chicken or meat! Seafood, caviar - please, but make sandwiches with grain bread, set aside a loaf, you still want a cake, we suppose? We repeat, absolutely nothing will be done with you from one piece! Especially if you do not sit with a dead weight in place, but move, and best of all dance!

New Year is robbing me clean.

And here you are right anyway. New Year's Eve expenses are off the charts for everyone. But something can still be corrected and reduced, because often we spend so much because of our own laziness and the habit of putting off everything until the last day. For example, who is stopping you from buying gifts in advance? Then, first of all, we will really be able to choose something we need, and not miss what is left on the counter. Secondly, attention: the more time before the New Year, the lower the prices. By buying gifts before the December rush begins, you will really save both money and nerves, and this is also important.

The same goes for purchasing groceries. Why is everyone on the last day? Did you just remember today that the New Year is approaching? Or do you enjoy meeting him in the kilometer-long line at the checkout? We agree that not everything can be bought in advance, but start stocking up as early as possible. The same champagne, pickled cucumbers, caviar (overseas squash). Although it's hard not to eat it all before the deadline ...

We begin to become predictable ... Lyuda, you won't believe it, but it's better to sign up for the hairdresser ALSO IN ADVANCE! Then the price of the issue can be negotiated so that it suits both parties, and at all not worry that on the eve of the holiday you will be left without styling ... And the dress ... You will laugh, but we advise you to buy a dress not on December 29! Then you will really like it and fit (because you will try on fifteen more before it). And if you stretch out and buy the only thing that is left there, keep in mind: 5 more people may end up in the same dress! Who just ran with you, in the foam, sweeping away the remnants of the collections ...

Just imagine: the janitor Petrovich had his birthday yesterday. And today he has a little death. Tomorrow, let's say, is World Janitor's Day. This means that the day after tomorrow he has another little death. And then the salary, and again a little death. The question is: who is to blame?

Certainly not a birthday, not a janitor's day, and even more so not a salary day - this is generally a holy day, how can you hate it! How can you hate New Years for a January 1st hangover? Hangovers are the root of all evil! In order not to come face to face with him, please do not interfere with drinks and do not get carried away with cocktails. Better not get carried away at all. Although you probably know "your" drink, after a moderate amount of which you do not have a headache. Be faithful to him.

But, even after drinking just a couple of glasses of wine, in the early evening of January 1, you may feel unwell.

This is because you woke up unusually late, the normal regime of the body went astray. The recipe for energy is simple: juice, shower and sex. In any order to taste.

In preparation for the New Year, the MCH will not strike a finger on a finger.

He will never hit if he is silent and sulky. Not because he is an insensitive monster who let you into his lair only to have you plow in three shifts while he chills. And simply because men need to say everything. That's how their brains work. They will not read on your proudly closed eyes, watch the angry turn of the neck and rack their brains, what is the matter - you have PMS or do you want a fur coat ... Tell me bluntly, but without collision: I can't cope with it, you need reinforcement! And indicate the place of deployment: in the kitchen by the sink - an operation to peel potatoes; in the living room at the table - the operation of bringing this very table into a ceremonial form. And for one hundred percent effect, it would be good to say "please, dear" and kiss somewhere. A specific girl always knows where to kiss a specific man so that he thaws.

It turns out that the man who was asked tenderly and intelligibly has the ability to perform a fairly wide range of activities in the kitchen. It has been scientifically proven that a rare man does not know how to keep track of a chicken in the oven (if you first tell him that this is the main dish that he will eat by himself). About half of the men are great at slicing lettuce (just show first what size and shape you want to see the ingredients, otherwise they will get carried away and cut the tomatoes into strips, thinner than spaghetti ...).

In fact, everyone can do it, but some people also strive to cut their own fingers, and you need to take care of your fingers - you still need to open champagne with them!

Well, here, in general, are all our answers. We sincerely hope that you read them and see that things are not so bad. After all, to be honest, Lyud, it's not about the New Year at all, is it? You hate not him, but the inconveniences and troubles associated with any holiday. But these are such trifles compared to the joy that he brings! We will recall now, perhaps not the most New Year's, but favorite statement of Coco Chanel: “There is a time to work, and there is a time to love. There is no other time left. " Do you see the word "hate" here? It is not there, and there should be no time for it either. There will be a New Year, and there will be a time to love. And even if now there seems to be no one to love, to begin with, love the New Year itself. He will not remain in debt!

P. S. Especially if you come to the 1905 Square!

P. P. S. The promised answer to the problem about the phone: Ksyusha gave her number to five young people (one of them was with a child, so he was counted as one and a half people, a total of 5.5!).

Waiting for the New Year has always been a difficult time for me. Here is the question that I like to answer most in December: "Where are you going to celebrate the New Year?"

And this is what I like most of all to answer: “At home. I'll bury myself in blankets and wait for you to settle down with your New Year. "

Is there anyone else here who doesn't like New Year as much as I do? If yes, then you will agree with me: New Year is very exhausting. First, there is the bustle of everyday life, queues and traffic jams. Secondly, an excessive obsession with consumption. Third, insincerity: formal greetings, formal trinkets, formal corporate celebrations.

But I also have a happy experience - the experience that says: “We create the holiday ourselves. So come on, Marina, let's do something to make the New Year cool! "

How does the New Year come about?

I think people who love the New Year do not love it for the moment they live, when - bam! - comes on January 1. This moment is so fleeting that we do not even have time to feel it. People love cooking: all that entourage that is associated with the holiday. In other words, we love the expectation of a miracle. But here's the bad luck - a modern person does not have time to stay in this state. It's hard to expect a miracle while queuing up for tangerines and champagne.

How to be? Make a miracle yourself. Pay attention to this. Dedicate your time to this. This year, under the guise of a miracle, my family and I decided to implement the NG-Cookies project. The idea is simple: to make a holiday other.

Great New Years Concept:

• Give up fuss and useless gifts.
• Return a joyful scent to the New Year.
• To practice “chaotic goodness” means to prepare something beautiful, pleasant, sincere for friends and acquaintances.
• Make it so that the memories of how we prepared for the onset of 2014 remain in our memory.

Project mechanics

• We bake two buckets of New Year's gingerbread cookies that you can eat or use to decorate your Christmas tree.
• Making a photo report while making cookies.
• We pack cookies in boxes, put a leaflet with photos and a couple of warm words in each box: let the recipient see that we have put our heart and soul into the preparation of the gift.
• We give cookies to friends, colleagues and everyone we can reach. They eat Christmas bears and remember us: ha ha, cookies with pepper!

Your time has come!

The time to give gifts has not yet come, but there are still a few days to prepare these gifts. Do you have friends for whom you have not yet prepared a gift? You can come up with your own NG project: for example, New Year's baked goods or a special ritual of congratulations for your closest friends.

If (suddenly!) You were inspired by my little story and decided to do something amazing on the eve of this New Year, write to me about it.

P. S. The next series has already matured in my head - the project "Greens by March 8". Coming up with and giving gifts is a good way to live interestingly :)

Someone plans to start life from scratch, someone rushes for gifts and already at the beginning of December draws up a menu for a festive table, and someone is looking for a fabulous place where you can spend this holiday in a special way. But there are people who hate the New Year and the pre-holiday bustle is like torture for them.

1. One of the main questions of this period is where to celebrate? This is where "breaking copies" begins, serious quarrels, etc. The beloved wants to celebrate the New Year in the company of friends, but it seems to you that this is a family holiday and in general it is good at home, but you can also go to your parents. It's good if, as a result of all these domestic wars, you manage to find a compromise, and most often it turns into exhausting quarrels with statements: "Well, go to your friends!" we need to leave right now! "," I prefer to love your mother at a distance! "...

Except for the New Year as a great holiday, this problem disappears in principle. You can sleep well while the whole country listens to the president's speeches, drinks champagne and makes masks from Olivier, and in the morning, unlike many others, you will be vigorous and cheerful to disgust. Or celebrate it modestly, without incurring waste. In general, give a minimum of strength and nerves, unlike everyone else.

2. New Year is an active holiday, and the end of the year, as you know, is the time of rush jobs, pulling up "tails" and breakneck speed. Those whose work is connected with close communication and people, by December 31, frankly want it to be like in the story of Ray Bradbury: to wake up in the morning and so that no one is there. Cooking food for a bunch of people, however, like looking for gifts, is considered by them as a universal evil. Someone, if they are lucky, prudently hides in their home and clogs the door from the inside with nails, and someone pretends to have fun with friends or family and curses themselves for agreeing to this when they could simply not go anywhere, and finally something, sleep well. Which is better, judge for yourself.

3. If you work as a doctor, rescuer or police officer, then you definitely have reason not to like the New Year. A magical New Year's Eve for others often becomes a nightmare for you, because the number of injuries, poisoning, lost money and phones, as well as those who first create problems for themselves and then, like a Chinese pioneer, successfully solve them, grows exponentially. Even if the next watch does not fall on the New Year, it is quite possible that there will be little joy from the holiday, for much knowledge is a lot of sorrow. There will always be those who can ask for help.

4. Traditional menu, including those bathing in mayonnaise, herring under a fur coat and mimosa, slicing of all sorts of properties and uncountable bottles of alcohol can also prevent you from falling in love with the New Year. If you have gastritis or allergies, there is always a person at the festive table who thinks that these are insignificant little things, and you simply must try the wonderful salad prepared by the hostess. And since you don’t drink (for one reason or another), you don’t respect everyone present at all. Telling everyone what the matter is is very tedious, so many in such cases are forced to simply avoid noisy and crowded feasts.

5. The approaching change of year is fraught with the need to look for gifts. At least that's the way it is. Many are ready to give gifts with pleasure, but not to coincide with the holidays, and the forced necessity causes them only anger and indignation. In addition, prices in stores before the New Year rise like temperatures during a cold. I recall with horror some seventh water on jelly in the form of Aunt Klava, who had to be presented with a gold chain last year, and she brought you a Soviet service as a gift, which was donated more than once. It may not work to portray joy and warmly thank, so it would be best to do without gifts and Aunt Klava. To avoid killing.

6. In addition to the feverish search for gifts and attempts to fill the refrigerator in advance, which also requires tremendous patience and strength, the stored food must also be prepared in order to amaze loved ones or guests with culinary delights. Yes, making a chic New Year's table is a whole story, and the fact is that not every hostess loves this business. And they may not always appreciate it. Once my friend, having a richly set table and being in full dress, decided to take a nap for five minutes to rest from the labors of the righteous. She woke up in the morning and then for a long time did not understand who all these people were in her apartment, where the food had gone and what was going on in general. Since then, she stopped celebrating the New Year.

7. For some, persistent intolerance to the New Year is associated with certain sad events, that happened that day, or rather the night. Someone was flooded exactly at midnight, and the neighbors who had a pipe burst were not at home - so they had to crawl on the floor with a rag all New Year's Eve ... Unpleasant associations can remain for a long time. And especially sensitive people with the approach of the holiday begin to get nervous - what kind of trouble awaits them this time. These people breathe a sigh of relief on January 1st.

8. What is the New Year without congratulations? No matter how it is. The need to invent something in itself is annoying. If the first ten close people can still wish something original, then the rest of the imagination may not be enough. In addition to relatives, there are also colleagues, relatives from Kamensk-Uralsky and Nakhodka, teachers of children and a veterinarian who treated your beloved dog. What if you don’t congratulate him, and then he will remember all the year? An exchange of banal SMS begins in the spirit of “Happy New Year, congratulations! I wish you happiness and joy! " or simply "Happy New Year!" Reply to 50 identical messages is beyond good and evil. Therefore, some simply do not send holiday spam and strongly recommend that loved ones avoid the same.

9. When you watch "Enjoy Your Bath!" and "Blue Light" for the first time, it's exciting. When you watch the second one, it may well be interesting again. For the third time it becomes dreary, but it's a tradition! One day, an acquaintance of mine took and threw away the TV. Relatives twisted a finger at their temples and hurried to evaporate. Now every year he uploads films that he has long wanted to watch, and watches with his wife, sipping delicious tea. And no relatives.

10. Among other things, there are those who consider it pointless to wait for a miracle in the New Year., because Santa Claus and Snow Maiden do not exist, and great hopes are the lot of children and dreamers. It is difficult to call them even pessimists. Rather, they are realists, confident that any miracle is the result of hard work. And you can't argue in most cases.

For some, New Year is a holiday, for others it is an ordinary day. Someone looks forward to champagne and oranges, a crowd of friends, and someone dreams of peace and quiet (although what a silence, when the firecrackers under the windows are torn one by one, and the neighbors from above seem to be dancing the hopak!). Yes, on New Year's Eve it is difficult to remain indifferent to what is happening. And yet the most important thing is that those who love the New Year and who are a burden on this day really

Why on this day it is imperative to celebrate it somehow, to make wishes? What does it give and to whom? And it is still completely incomprehensible why the highest degree of joy for people is the opportunity to gorge themselves to capacity, to get drunk until they pass out ...

Outside the window is December, which means that every day the New Year's tinsel is increasing exponentially, and sadness and emptiness are growing in the soul at the same speed. Indifference to the New Year turns into an obvious dislike for it and reaches a brain-tearing hatred for everything connected with this day and for those who invented it. Why do most people love this day, wait for it, prepare carefully? What motivates people when they spend so much time, effort and money preparing for this "stupid" holiday. Looking at the crowds of people in stores, sweeping away an insane amount of food, alcohol, tinsel, gifts for the New Year, one wants to run away somewhere far away, where no one even knows about the existence of this holiday.

After all, why all this? What to celebrate? The fact that one number in someone invented chronology was replaced by another? Why is it necessary to celebrate this day in a special way, to make wishes? What does it give and to whom? And it is still completely incomprehensible why the highest degree of joy for people is the opportunity to eat to the fullest, get drunk until they pass out, gather in crowds, laugh at stupid jokes, watch stupid New Year programs with primitive music? Do they really enjoy it so much that they are ready to prepare so much for the celebration?

And these stupid signs like "how you celebrate the New Year, you will spend it", observance of idiotic rules about the composition of the menu or the color of clothes, depending on which year is coming in the zodiac, the tradition of drinking champagne (even if you hate it) with a burnt piece of paper with a cherished wish written on it! But even worse are the deafening fireworks and the joyfully screaming drunken crowds of people!

It doesn't matter whether you take part in this or remain an outside observer - every year during the massive New Year's celebrations, a clear thought rises into consciousness from the depths of your soul that you are not like everyone else, a stranger at this holiday. This thought gives rise to a strong internal contradiction: on the one hand, at such moments you consider all people to be a stupid animal herd, for which an abundance of tasty dishes and other simple entertainments is enough, on the other hand, the realization of your own difference from others exacerbates the feeling of emptiness and loneliness.

Revealing the causes of New Year's depression

Such an attitude to the New Year and to all the festive holidays in general is not accidental and is quite understandable with the help of the knowledge that we gain at the training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan. Although we all look the same, but our psyche, according to "System-vector psychology", has colossal differences and is divided into 8 types - vectors. The so-called sound vector stands apart among them. Its most important difference from the other seven is that not a single innate desire for the sound vector has the slightest relation to the material world.

A modern person usually has several vectors, but the sound vector is dominant, therefore, even with other vectors, it is he who mainly determines the behavior and thoughts of a person. often seem strange, out of this world precisely because their nature in relation to this world is like a parallel line - in nothing it intersects with it. The most important desire for the sound vector is the knowledge of the meaning of life. This can be realized or not, it can be expressed in different ways: some are looking for meanings in exact sciences, languages, others simply deny the existence of the meaning of life and go headlong into gambling addiction or drugs.

The common and most important thing for all people with a sound vector is one thing: even if they are given all the riches of the world, love the size of the Universe, the highest recognition and glory - this is not enough for them, one might say, for them it is simply nothing. Since only sound people always feel the illusory nature of our world and the finiteness of life in this body. Of course, from early childhood they feel how different from other people.

Lifetime moments such as holidays highlight the irresistible contrast between people with a sound vector and the rest of the people. While everyone else is happily preparing for the holiday, sound people are more and more immersed in themselves, they are more and more tormented by questions about the meaning of life. At the same time, since we live in a society where there are generally accepted traditions and norms, it is at the same time difficult for sound specialists how to adapt to others and pretend that they enjoy what they absolutely do not care about, and to be constantly misunderstood, black sheep strange in the eyes of others.

Proofreader: Galina Yurkanova

There are few such people, but they still exist. What to do, if you do not like new year, and all the reminders about this holiday annoy you?

Why don’t you arrange an "Anti-New Year" then. Find a couple of the same as you, New Year haters and celebrate the non-celebration of the New Year. After all, a legal weekend is given to celebrate the New Year - why not just relax?

You annoying trees- don't put them on!

You annoying holiday program- do not turn on the TV, or just watch some favorite movie.

You annoying gifts for the New Year- so do not buy them, but at the same time, why not take advantage of holiday discounts to buy gifts for your relatives for some other holiday that you respect more than the New Year. Well, think, if you do not like the New Year, this is not a reason to deprive this holiday of your relatives who love it.

So why are some people so annoyed by the New Year, what are the reasons... The reasons can be both hidden, which the New Year hater himself does not fully understand, and obvious reasons. Sometimes, it is enough just to understand the reason, and only this alone can solve the whole problem and change the attitude towards the situation. Let's take a closer look. There are several reasons for not loving the New Year:

1. Loneliness, when there is no one to celebrate the holiday with, he begins to annoy and on New Year this feeling is exacerbated, as never. What to do?

Advice 1. Don't be alone, find some company! Easy to say - hard to do? As it was already written above, you can find yourself in a company like you singles and not fans of the New Year, by a simple survey of friends or use the Internet.

Tip 2. Don't celebrate! New Year is a day off and you can just relax, sleep during it, sometimes it is very valuable.

You can go on a journey

- you can, on the contrary, work fruitfully at your favorite job, but do not agree to do your not favorite work on New Year's, just because you still have no one to celebrate with - you will hate the New Year and work even more.

2. Before the New Year, many enterprises and private traders have influx of work, endless reports, endless stream of customers, work day and night - what kind of holidays are there. When it is impossible to rest and the work you love gets stuck in your throat, what then can you say about the unloved one? But instead of changing our unloved job, we just start to hate the New Year and everything connected with it.

Advice 1. Change your attitude towards the holiday, separate it from work,

Tip 2. Change jobs if possible.

3. - a lot of people are waiting for some kind of fairy tale in the New Year, the fulfillment of cherished desires, some miracles. They wait year after year, but nothing happens and they begin to hate this holiday.

Advice 1. Do not expect anything special from the New Year, and then even the little things will seem like a pleasant surprise to you.

Tip 2. Create a fairy tale yourself and then you will love the New Year, this advice is especially relevant to parents. Come up with a small festive program for your children, invite Santa Claus, give gifts - the children will rejoice, and this joy will certainly reflect on you.

4. Financial difficulties. Yes, of course, the New Year is a holiday, it is a joy, but it is also a certain financial expense. And if someone has material difficulties, then in the New Year they are felt more than ever.

Advice 1. Think about New Year's spending in advance:

- you can buy something even a few months before the holiday with discounts,

- you can think over the menu in advance - a rich table - not necessarily an expensive table!

- gifts can be made with your own hands, and if it annoys you, just make your family something very pleasant or useful.

And don't bother! New Year is just an excuse to relax, so arrange a vacation for your family, relax yourself! Let us give your family a gift from their happy sister, mom or dad, and not everyone who hates an annoyed person!

5. In the head before the New Year porridge - how to do everything? Before the New Year holidays, there are always a lot of things to do, I want to do a lot, a lot of things, but you get confused and start doing something unnecessary, forget about the main thing and in the end do nothing, and instead of enjoying the anticipation of the holiday and the pre-holiday bustle, you just start to hate the New Year.

Advice 1. Plan ahead, be sure to make lists on paper or on a computer, don't keep everything in your head. In addition, all kinds of pre-New Year marathons can help you not to get lost in the pre-New Year's bustle.

For example, on November 20, our website will start, hurry up to join it, and may the New Year no longer annoy you!

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