Mystical stories about mother-in-law. Relationship with mother-in-law. History from life. Alexandra: "She was very easy for her to wash his son's brain!"

Hello girls! I read the mother-in-law somewhere six months, decided to write his story, as I had enough courage and strength to break with my mother-in-law. Maybe someone will come in handy. So. Mamo I do not see my year! And feel beautiful. If anyone doubts whether it is worth interrupting the relationship with the beet. You will never regret that the mother-in-law is not in your life! You will regret only that they did not make it early.
For the first few years I could not rejoice at my mother-in-law. Come to the mother-in-law a couple of times a year and there were no problems. Well, this, as it turned out, did not interfere with my back mud water. It was not very diligently, so I did not immediately notice. It all started like a majority, after the birth of a child. We arrive from the maternity hospital, and almost all of my things are shifted from one corner of the room to another, in her taste. I was shocked. I really began tantrum, but I was a good girl, I locked and sobbed in the toilet. And the whole family of the mother-in-law in the corridor stood and listened. Well, okay, as she took himself in hand. Instead of sending them to everyone on ... y, I began to talk to my husband, they say to the guests, the child should be swathe, feed, etc. Do not believe, instead of getting, she still became the guests to convene, so that they looked at the child. I eventually told her that they say the first month does not show, and I don't have to bring infection here. But very soft and delicately. Okay reached. In short, she stood still half an hour and left with the words of the melt completely cursed, etc, etc.
Then grandmother began to visit. That will come, it will take five minutes with him with him, and let me go for me and share the priceless tips. Well, I would, then, after all, there are only 30 nodes, I have only 2 in, how can I stranger without advice to me? Give the whole brain and runs to the store. There are always discounts and stocks, it is clearly more interesting than to take a walk with the grandson for example. I first did not offer, and when she suggested that she was going to walk with her granddaughter several times, I realized that she would rather go to the store and make me the brain to die. And I tried to leave her neighboring room from her, left my husband. Not. She runs for me, she is more interesting to her than with them. Third times, she still remained with the child when they asked, well, for three hours. For this, I am very grateful to her and that's it! But periodically my mother told about how Babu Nureu met (relatives of Svek.). And here the Baba Nuren did not like something. I do not prescribe my husband to my husband, then we do not help. And or rather, her youngest sons, a cat for 20, but they have not work anywhere and do not learn. Well, it's clear, they are all there, I have behind my back, they are mistaken. That's what. The mother-in-law called my mom and asked her with Ihidza, why I would not be pregnant. This is two years old, you could not have a child, about the fault of the husband. The same, I had accumulated from ISGE to Krenta, sorry. And I decided to stop communicating with her. Began to read the stories of local husband and chew in detail that I am as much as I am. She is for me - a strange aunt. I am for her - some kind of girl. Well, we can not love DR DR. We are not really a lesbian. I read about how the beethers of the daughter-in-law bezed, they are jealous to the sons, they want them. At first he almost rushed to me that you me, they say you read some e ... sorry, sorry. I am: "But I feel like that. Look, I told you, that's the same then "and read pieces. Of course too much for a man. In short, the beginning to reach. I am right in the syllables chopped into his head that I don't like his mother, I don't need her, she is for me - someone else's person who is not necessary. I don't want to communicate with her. This is his mother, and for him she can be the best. Maybe there is, I know how. It is a visible to him. But for me, at-someone's person. And I do not force him to communicate with my mom. So what's the hell did he imposes my mother all the time? And again once five is all this, with an emphasis on the words, the cat allocated. As a result, it came out. I still gave her the last chance. Which she happily won. But I was good, aki sacrificial sheep. She mocks me, and I'm silent and forgive. And even the husband then agreed that yes, you behaved well. And I really, girls, tried to give the last chance. I read on some idiotic site that you need to forgive all the mother-in-law and love her with all the soul. Well, on such sites, something else writes about wrinkles on her face and the compounds that are invited to stroke. Yeah, I climbed this from the threshold on the head, I was straight surprised how everything quickly happened. Well, that's all in this spirit. But I really, I can't portray myself, but I wanted to try the last way. Then I say my husband: "Well, you saw, I did everything that I could, I gave her the last chance." And of course she listed her husband several times her best actions that evening. Slowly and with accents in the right places. Well, suddenly he did not notice as a man. By the way, he did not really notice half, the pods there are all sorts of dismissive relationships. Well, I am an empty place, well, it's all like people. Here. Such a story, I tried unnecessary not to write, and so much turned out. Maybe someone will help. He wrote because really many times here I read about how tolerant for years are worried about the miscarriage. Girls, what are you? Assist. One thing of course, when the feet are stinking, then you can still suffer here, I think. Another thing when, in the soul is shy. It is not worth it, by the way, now it's good to treat it very much when I do not see. But she doesn't take her foot to her itself. I do not forbid my husband to communicate, the grandson carry to her do not forbid it. But the husband is warned-convertible that if it starts to tune me, it is FIG, and not grandson. And something seems to me and this chance of pros ... t.

A woman who told me this story, along with me a course of treatment in the district hospital. We, four inhabitants of the Chamber, were amazed in heard. I'll tell you this story as he heard from the first person. Names, surnames and addresses will not call, I'm just afraid. But in the authenticity of this story do not doubt.

"We were born and grew up with my husband on the same street. I grew up a good girl: modest, hardworking. School graduated with a gold medal, entered the institute. And from this day of their future relatives I saw almost daily. I was not married, I was not going to 30 years, but soon the wedding still took place.

When my son turned a year, mother-in-law fell into the hospital. On the same day, with the words of sympathy and consolation, I came running to her. She rushed to me with tears, began to hug me with a neleval force, squeezing with fists alternate my hands, neck, back, lower back, sobbing and rushing.

The next morning I could not climb from bed. I lacked the air, all the joints penetrated pain, the temperature was under forty. Doctors could not ease my condition. Moreover, according to the results of the analyzes, they could not put the correct diagnosis. The mother-in-law, on the contrary, recovered and returned home.

My forces were on the outcome when a close friend advised to go to a familiar Woman-Savory, she lived nearby, in our region. I was met by a pretty young woman, looked at the tea. Then she said:
"Do not worry everything will be fine. You got to me in time. If you do as I say, we will beat you all your enemies. When you return home, take your pillow and outtreach from it all that is there. Sleep not lie down to 12 hours, because at this time an important event will happen for you. Twice a day Pei herbal infusion, which I will give you. Now go with God! "

At home I immediately began revising your pillow. In addition to the flock, it turned out to be some pebbles and a black cross, connected and twisted from ordinary black threads. Thousands of nodes of this craft should have driven me to the grave. Throwing around, I fell asleep in front of the TV on.

Suddenly, at some point jumped, remembering the evacuation of the evacuarians. There were twelve on the clock, and the image of Archangel Michael was frozen on the TV screen in an old carved rim. Then everything was gone, and I only woke up in the morning. Near me, my mother and husband were harvested.

Umnitsa Savarkka did not deceive - the disease went to decline. Mom rejoiced and prayed for this good woman, having heard my detailed story.

As for the icon, Mom remembered that her father, my grandfather Mikhail blessed her as the same face, in the same rim. Searches for this icon were crowned with success. My mother and I found it in an old house, from which the Communists had once kicked her parents as the most wealthy selenics. In it, I was first located the rural council, then it was given to a large family, but thank God, the attic people did not bring everything from the attic. Our icon was lying on dirty and dyed in the far corner, unharmed. Now Archangel Mikhail stands in my house.

My mother-in-law died, but her "gift" she handed over his native niece - a non-pieces of a woman who, having received the "testament", was transformed into unrecognizable. Now it is an amorrant sullen, arrogant, malicious, with a sealing eye of black eyes. "

Some half a century ago was considered to be normal to call mother's mother-in-law, move to her house and he hold her tips with open mouth. Today, young couples try to disperse, but sometimes even the distance is unable to stop the intervention of mother-in-law into the life of a new family. We talked with Belarusians, who had a relationship with their mother-in-law differently.

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Alexandra: "She was very easy for her to wash his son's brain!"

My mother-in-law immediately said that she smokes us. I do not know what I did not please it, but she tightly kept my husband under the heel.

We lived at her at home in a separate room: her husband and my husband was just that slippers in her teeth did not bring. I didn't just try to help in the economy, but really pulled everything: I prepared for everyone, I cleaned my apartment, and my mother-in-law came from work and "fell" from fatigue in a chair to the TV.

And this is despite the fact that I also worked! I tried my best to make friends with her, agree, but she was always unhappy! And the most unpleasant thing that she was very easy to rinse the brain to her son.

How much I did not persuade your husband to rent an apartment or move to my parents, it was categorically against. Now I understand that "categorically against" is not about him, he simply did not want to change anything, he was comfortable there, and my problems were not worried about him.

When I gave birth to a child, my husband did not even come to the hospital! Like mother-in-law, of course. Then I straight from the hospital went to my parents. So we lived some time apart, my husband did not call and did not seek meetings with the child. A few months later we met to discuss what to do next. What is the meaning of marriage, if we do not even call up? He suggested to move to him again. I decided to give him another chance.

And he, of course, did not justify this chance. I do not remember why this quarrel began. But my mother-in-law pointed me on the door to me and a seven-month child at 9 o'clock in the evening! I could not stand up that I had saved in myself all these few months, which lived with her under the same roof. And began to collect things.

My husband did not tend a word! Svekr sympathetically looked at everything that happened, but also did not decide to intervene. I called a taxi and left once and forever.

Now the former husband is not interested in the life of our child: I don't even post photos on social networks. Does not want to know us, it is not necessary. I re-married, gave birth again. My second husband is a wonderful father for both children, and we are all very happy!

Tatyana: "Endless advice, how to raise children, how to treat folk remedies"

It's good that mother-in-law lives far away, otherwise she would "lose" her son. After all, the husband was always on my side, although he suffered from the fact that the mother is offended.

All whims and on my part, and from the side of the mother-in-law passed through her husband, because we never expressed anything to each other with her.

I infoved me here: she always tried to impose her opinion, to give the advice that we did not ask, and offended that we were not listening to her. For example, mother-in-law asks what needs to buy grandson from clothes. If we refuse, she is offended that her help is not needed.

Then not to offend her, the husband invites her to give us money to buy themselves. She is angry again. Then he will take, not asking, herself will buy something and brought. And I like it - I do not like, you have to wear mom to be offended.

Or will come to visit and starts to "restore order" and indicate what to put much better. And endless advice, how to raise children, how to treat folk remedies, etc.!

Of course, when the Council was needed, we asked, but when not, but we are so insistently offered, it annoys. And I wanted to refuse how to soften, because she has a sick heart. But over the years, my mother-in-law understood everything and much less often began to poke his nose into our lives, and I became easier to treat it.

Catherine: "did not take place as a grandmother, it's like someone else's person"

It all started with the wedding itself, when my mother-in-law not only did not give a gift, but did not even congratulate us with words.

But I still tried to please my mother-in-law. I came to the village to help at the farm: Cow Dailed, Garden of Polola, etc. My husband helped mom financially build a house. And when we had a disabled child, she didn't even come, but just called and said:

How God will give: Survive, it will survive, but dies, so die.

Son was born without esophagus. Behind the long years of hospitals, sanatoriums, rehabilitation. Fortunately, we coped - the esophagus made from the fabrics surrounding the lungs. We have gone a lot of strength and money for such a result.

The mother-in-law set up her husband against me, argued that such a child was born in my fault. Okay, I did not accept me, but she did not even visit the grandson in hospitals.

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Nobody did on my son, but I only lived, I did it. He already told poems for 2 years! I wanted to prove to everyone that he is the best. I spent years in hospitals, during this time my mother-in-law never even crossed the threshold. My husband worked almost around the clock to pay for operations and rehabilitation.

Now the Son is already 13 years old, he became a healthy child, and mother-in-law for me as a person stopped existing. Over the years, she did not take place as a grandmother, it's like someone else's person. Now she is seriously ill, I have forgiven, but I did not forget anything.

My husband has a younger brother, the mother-in-law has unsubscribed him everything - an apartment, a house, for all the time he did not give a penny. Well, that I was lucky with my husband: he worked, he worked, worked ... and we saved our son!

Therefore, I advise all girlfriends: if my mother-in-law brings gifts to grandchildren, take care of her!

Tatyana: "It would be nice to take a mother-in-law with him to rest!"

I have a non-standard situation: I have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. First, mother-in-law lives in another city. Secondly, she is a very simple woman: it does not bother because of the trifles and does not climb into the soul.

I can talk to her and an hour and more. And even if she doesn't like something, she speaks very delicately, he does not climb into the family. It can advise something, but only in the form of a board, not recommendation, not an order. Always helps, goes to meet.

I recently needed to ride the procedure with my daughter, and my son was punished. We called the mother-in-law, said they would bring her grandson. No problem!

Son stayed there 2.5 weeks, mother-in-law and approach to him found. The only one, after the grandmother, the son arrived blossomed, so helpless: "I can't wear a sock!", "I can't clean my teeth!" ... Immediately it is clear that the grandmother has encouraged somewhere.

I even think that it would be great to take a mother-in-law with him to rest to break out some excursion with her husband, a romantic dinner and a walk under the moon. I feel easy with her. Of course, an important factor is what we live in different cities.

Olga Davletbayeva

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At first, I could not rejoice at my mother-in-law. She treated me as a native daughter - it seemed that I had gained the second mom. But then her obsessive friendship and the desire to manage me began to annoy. By the way, my husband was on my side.

When I met Boris, I was on the seventh heaven from happiness. Smart, beautiful, intelligent guy, besides caring and gentle. I earned good money by taking the position of leading manager in the prosperous construction company of his father.

Sometimes I was even surprised why this wonderful young man drew attention to such a gray mouse as me. But, naturally, such thoughts left with him, did not voiced.

Our first frozen dates smoothly turned into a stormy, dizzying affair with grandparent plans for future collaborative life. And once Boria invited me to him to introduce his parents.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law - a story of life

Seeing this house (no, not a house, but a domic!), I revealed my mouth from amazement and delight. The chic two-storey mansion made an indelible impression.

Oh wow! - Abnul, looked around the huge, giving out somewhere in the distance of a well-kept garden with perfectly cut-down bushes, an intricate dairy color stucco on the walls and a luxurious front porch. A heavy impressive door slowly opened, and a beautiful slender woman appeared on the threshold of the house in the house. She extended me a thin hand covered with a slight tan.

Hello, Nada, - said Mom Boris. - I'm Karina. Glad to meet you.

I hastily slammed my mouth, afraid to bloom something wrong and seem like a naive fool, and vigorously shook a narrow palm.
"Wow, what a strong handshake," she smiled. - Unknown girl ... You probably do sports?
- Little. Aerobics, fitness. Basically, to keep yourself in shape, "answered her with the go.

This is me, to put it mildly, brought. I lacked money for paid classes. Therefore, it was limited to a banal charge in the mornings and free riding in the park.

I'm commendable, Karina nodded. "I would like to know about you as much as possible," she turned to his son: "Bornka, spend a guest to the house."
"Of course," Boria picked me up at hand.

After a couple of minutes, I felt a Cinderella, for the first time in my life that fell into the royal palace. After all, the future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were from different worlds. My clothing from the Second was clearly not for this magnificence. Exquisite manners, in contrast to the beloved and his parents, did not differ too.

And what can be manners, if mom sells fruit vegetables in the market, and the dad was a simple worker at the factory (he died many years ago). To the aristocrats to us - as to the sky. Looking at the edge of the chair, I was taped in the hands of the handkerchief and brought himself together about my life.

Periodically, the nausea rolled up to the throat, and I was on the verge of losing consciousness from tension and excitement,
- School ... School ... work ... nothing interesting ...
- That is, after the school you did not go to the institute?
- No ... - I squeezed, feeling another attack of illtate. And immediately slapped, explaining: - You see, I thought that I would definitely do not act on the budget. And on the paid department to learn - there is no money. What is mom for salary in the market? Kopey ... Allows you to reduce the ends with the ends. So I work to get ready for study.

Of all this, the truth was just what I worked. About the institute - lie. In fact, in reality, I did not think at all until today.
-Where do you work? Karina asked.
- In the shop. Seller, - whispered, having patched. I was afraid to raise my head, so as not to see the scornful look of the future mother-in-law. But contrary to my expectation, that suddenly splashed his hands and exclaimed, turning to her husband.
- You see, Gennady, what a naughty clever! Independent, responsible! Not that these modern windy girls. It is frightened so that it is terrible ... only they know that they run through the nightclubs ...

"So I'm not limited? - worried. - Is it a condemnation or approval? Judging by the tone, rather approval, "and, having come to this conclusion, exhaled with relief.

After the introductory secular conversation, everyone went to the dining room. Dinned behind a long table covered with snow-white, manually embroidered tablecloth. Although dinner is, of course, it is strongly said. I did not eat anything, fearing to confuse cutlery.

Returned home only in the evening, thoughtful and silent.

Tell me how everything went, - I demanded mom.
- It seems normal, "shrugged. - Borina Parents reacted to me benevolently. Although I'm on their background - a bench, - grinned. - They do not peck money. In the garage already four cars cost, imagine?
- So what? Think, cars ... Wealth is not the most important thing. If only you with Borea loved each other.
- How, not the main thing ... - extended, without agreeing.
- Yes. Not important! - stood on her parent. - Here we were happy with your father and without any million.
"And with millions you would be happy even more," I confused, I faked it. "
- Nadya, do you really think so? - She squinted like a challenge. - Did I taught it to this?
"Mom, yes I joked, calm down," having worried fun.

Material wealth in our family has never been considered a special value. Despite the rather landed profession of the seller, Mom lived in a special illusory world and constantly slept me with beautiful phrases about the soul, kindness, dedication and all exercise.
- I wonder, and Boris's parents did not express desire to meet me? - Mom asked.
- expressed, but how ... for the next weekend, a solemn reception was assigned in honor of our engagement. Naturally, you are also invited.
- Reception? - stretched out mom. - Well, it is necessary ... I have never been at any receptions in life.
"And you will visit," I said.

Among the week, the bridegroom said that on Friday evening his mother wants to meet me.
"We were going to the movie," I reminded.
"We go another time," he responded carelessly.

I didn't like it too much. Still, it was already somehow tuned to romance, on the kisses the sneak in the last row. Does he cancel a date in favor of his mother? But why?
- Angry, listen, and maybe I better meet her on Thursday? - suggested carefully. - I just have a free day ...

Nadia, since Mom said on Friday, it means on Friday, "Boris replied. - Did you upset? Do not pout…
- Yes, I do not come, I just wanted to spend the evening with you.
"We still have so many evenings in front," he pulled me to him, buried his nose into my hair, and I immediately melted, firmly pressed the cheek to his chest.
- Well, so, the sun, agreed?
- Yeah. ... By the way, what does your mother want from me? - asked.
- And I really do not know ... Type in the store go together.
- What for? - Throwing the head, I looked into my face.
- As far as I understood, she is going to buy some new clothes and it seems to be advised with you.
- Wow! - delighted. - So, she believes that I have a good taste? Cool! Does your mom dress in boutiques? Oh, there are such things are chic, but expensive - horror.
"Naduha," Boria suffered an endless eyes, "I don't know where my mother is dressed." I am not interested in me. She herself ask if it worries.
"I won't ask her anything," he shoved her with her shoulder, "and she decides that I am a stupid tetea-maty."

Boris looked around, joking me joking me in the side.
- Well, you said - a tete-matty. Have fun.
To be honest, I am very pleased that Karina decided to take me to the councils, so all the offense on Bouring immediately evaporated. After all, to establish a good relationship with his mom - now it is hardly the most important task. Nice, damn when the mother beloved considers you a friend, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must make friends!

Oh, that it was Friday! Camping for expensive shops, where I have not even dare to look before. Help to the impossibility of saleswomen, price tags, on which, as in that anecdote, whether the cost is indicated, or the phone number. Karina chose himself an elegant beige top with a shiny golden thread. She twisted in front of the mirror and said:
- I will be in it on your engagement. And on my neck, I just eats a suitable necklace of white gold. What do you say?
"I will say that you will be the most beautiful," I got a compliment.
- The most beautiful should be you, my dear. This is your holiday.

I sighed, thinking that it was hardly in my only para-weekend costume bought on sale last year, I would look decent. Coming out of the fitting room, Karina carelessly jumped right there topiced the top saleswoman.
- I'll take this thing.

I moved to the checkout, but the future mother-in-law called me: "Let's see me."
She stopped her attention on a dark dress with original sleevers. Simple, but very nice.
- What do you think? - asked me. - In my opinion, nothing.
"Cute," I nodded.

In fact, the dress seemed to me slightly gloomy, probably because of the color, but I did not mess around Karin. "Well, for example," she said with an ordinary tone.
- I?! But why? - From surprise, even his eyes stacked her.
- I want to look from the side, as it looks.
"You see, we have different figures with you, so you should not focus ..." I started to glove.
- In the fitting room! - issued Karina continued. I had to obey. I will not say that the dress was bad, just not quite in my taste.

Excellent! We take.
- Just like that? And you do not even stop him?
- Not necessary.
- And if it is bad for you?
- It does not matter. I'm not going to wear it.

I missed a misunderstanding look.

You will be in this dress on the engagement, "she said.
- What? - I was taken away. - But I ... I ... I did not think ...
- There is nothing to think.
- But this dress is more than my salary for the month.
- Never mind. I buy it. Because I want you to look great at the reception.

Instead of arguing and admit that the dress does not like the dress, I crumbled in gratitude, remember that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law now as if members of one family. Then we sealed into a small restaurant "to eat". I wanted to order myself only a cup of coffee, but Karina stated that it was harmful to health, and took us on a glass of fresh juice. When I saw how much he stands, I really became bad. But the bill paid the future mother-in-law, so I decided not to bother.

In general, as far as I understood, she was obsessed with the idea of \u200b\u200bhealthy nutrition.
- No meat, only fish! It is very helpful! - Karina's convincingly. - And more different salads with olive oil. This is my usually menu.

I almost blurted out that I love pork chops and chicken wings, but in time wandered myself.
- You support my views?
- entirely and completely, - I smiled immediately.

To upset Borin Mom did not have the reason.

Okay! I hope with you with the joint efforts of our men re-eat, "she winked.
- In what sense? - I did not understand.
- In direct. My husband and son still cannot understand that a person is, in fact, what he eats. Throw out all garbage, swallowed what will have. I'm already tired of dealing with it! - she is
raw eyes. - And now I have a uniform. We are strength.
- Yeah, strength, this is accurate, and damit from politeness.

Then Karina began to talk about miraculous enema, and I almost stuck with invaluable juice. But I was restrained and only nodded, so as not to offend my boyfriend's mother. It was very important for me to conquer her sympathy.

Reception in honor of our engagement with Borea has passed great (except for the fact that the tables were completely useful "nasty"). Karina did not move away from me, disintegived with all the guests, without tired twitter, exceeding my advantages to heaven. I do not hide, I was nice.

The only thing I was embarrassing myself in a new dress (I don't like such a dark color!), And otherwise everything went more than perfectly. I didn't even notice that my mom was modestly stood as a sideline, without talking to anyone.

And on another day, sharing with mom's most intimate on our little kitchen, I happily tweet:
- Borina Parents promised to give us an apartment for a wedding! God, I can not believe that it is possible!
- Isn't your expensive gift? - Mom said.
- Ma, if they can afford, why not?
- Well, I do not know ... it seems to me that it is too ...
"Oh, stop, Mamulchichka," I dismissed. "And after the painting, I will go to the wedding journey with Boris. Do you know where? Guess! Although try!
- I have no idea. Maybe to Turkey? Or in Egypt?
- No, no and NO! Week in Italy ... - I dreamily spread my hands. - And the week in Paris! It's like a fairytale!
- The main thing is that the fairy tale does not end quickly.
- It will not end. Karina said that we fell on a week of high fashion in Paris. Let's go for shows.
- Wait, - Mom frowned. - What side there was your precious Karina?
"She rides with us," I said.
- Seriously? Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? In the wedding trip?! Oh well…

Honestly, I myself was shocked when he heard this news. But Karina led weighty arguments: they say, in no case can you miss the opportunity to visit high fashion. And who should go there, how not to her?
- Mom, I do not understand what you do not like. Let go. We will dwell with BORE in the room for the newlyweds, and she is in the next. What problems?
- Yes, no. If it does not confuse it ...
- I am confused by your falniac mood! The daughter get married, and you do not see something on your face joy.

The preparation for the wedding was no less ambitious than the celebration itself. All the expenses of Borina Parents took over. My mother made all her savings, but they were just a drop in the sea.
Feeling obliged, I tried not to argue with Karina. I agreed to the outfit that she liked. Allowed himself to persuade on a hat with a veil, although he always dreamed of a long white fate. Future mother-in-law even went with us to choose wedding rings!

My mother looked at the established position of things with bewilderment, bordering the discontent.
"Nadia, you have always had your opinion on any occasion, stop going about Karina!"
In the depths of the soul, I, of course, I agreed with her. But aloud this did not utter it, but pretended to be satisfied and happy.

Enough to tune me against the mother-in-law! - I said to my mother. - I will have a wedding that I dreamed about!
"You will have a wedding that Borin's mother dreamed about."
In general, this is exactly what happened. But I did not get upset, I understood that in any case Karina makes every effort, and for us with Borea.
"This is just a wedding," repeated themselves. "Let him do, as he wants, I don't feel sorry for me." Then everything will be different. "

From the wedding trip, I returned, exhausted by the constant presence of mother-in-law. For the first time there were thoughts that it was time to put an end to her obsessive friendship.
- And now we will deal with the purchase of an apartment! - solemnly declared mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, that is, I, OneMel. - What area would you like?
"Oh, I don't even know if it was confused." - The main thing is that the apartment is warm and cozy. Well, we do not need a big one, there is no need!
-What means "not need big"?! - She was indignant. - And when the children go where they will play? I think you need to have at least four rooms, and even better - five.
- But why so much?
- Do not argue, I know better. From tomorrow I will start riding views. I already called a real estate.
- I can not yet. Except in the evening. My vacation is over, it's time to work.
- What job?! In the shop? Are you still not quitted?
- Why should I quit?
- I was not enough to disappoint our family and stand behind the counter! And then, Borek is able to keep a family. I say correctly, Boris? After all, am I right?
- Of course, the right, Mamuly! - He acquired mother by the shoulders.

And I again went with them about. I obediently wrote a statement on your own request.
Despite the fact that we went to choose housing together, my opinion Karina was not particularly interested. She focused exclusively on his own taste. And I, of course, did not reread again.

Is it possible to express discontent if you are presented to such a dear gift? In addition, I received an envelope with the enon sum of "on furniture and baubles". I have never held such money in my hands ...

But my life under the sensitive leadership of the mother-in-law changed the cardinal way. Missing mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law began to dance under her drawing ... We prepared useful dishes with her (and I wanted roasted potatoes!), I died fresh juice (without coffee I just died!) They regularly visited the hairdresser and cosmetic bag (because the wife of her son should look good), went shopping (but it was not allowed to meet with his friends, "it's a pity to spend time").

The most terrible were evenings: I, my husband, beet and mother-in-law went to the restaurant, then on some reception. I have already forgotten when I spent the time together with Borea!

In me, ripe rebellious moods. Of course, if you look from the side, it seems, everything is in chocolate, it is not complaining about what. But in fact, I was ready to explode and spoil the relationship with Borina Mom.

You are a real treasure, "Karina repeated, than it instantly disarmed. - Cute, obedient, pretty. I am glad that Bornka is so lucky.

"How do you dare if I stop to give up and start defending my point of view?" - I thought I am increasingly. One day, mother-in-law gave me a book about the purification of the body. And in a couple of days, asked: "Read?"
"Well, of course," I selected. - very informative.
- In this case, we will conduct joint starvation. I did not expect such a turn.
"This is not for me," said gently. - With one thought about the empty stomach, spasms begin.

A smile on her face instantly went out.
"I just have no will," I added.
- I will take care of you, - the mother-in-law did not give up.
- No, really, I can not cope with such a test.
"Well," she got up. - If you do not want to be healthy, it's your business. Although I thought you were smarter ...

When mother-in-law came out, I felt a remorse of conscience. Though the run behind her, apologize and agree on this crazy venture with starvation. But I did not run. How much do you can depict a good-to-the-mattiness?

And the last drop, which overflowed the bowl of my patience, was asked about ours with Borea of \u200b\u200ban intimate life.

I wanted to ask you for a long time, it began once a Karina without the shadow of embarrassment. - Are you protected? It is about contraception, "explained, seeing my elongated physiognomy. - Recently, I often thought about it and decided that you would still have a child early.
"Well ..." I jumped. - We have not yet talked about children.
- Right! Enjoy youth and freedom. The whole world is open. I always adored travel, now we can ride the four-way. Because with Gennady on trips you can die from longing.

I am dumbfounded. Enough with me a wedding trip in the society of mother-in-law! She does not understand what prevents?
Search salvation I went to my mother

What should I do? - I question. - She already got me! It seems like it wants as best, but this kind of kind thing is across the throat. And it is impossible to argue, you know?! I already barely restrain.
- What does Borya say about this? Mom asked.
- Nothing! It is all day at work. With his mommy has to communicate mainly to me.
- You can also return to work.
- But I have enough money ...
- And you are not going to work for money, but to feel like a person, and not just a beautiful doll. Well, with the mother-in-law video will be less likely.

I can not imagine that she will say if I pour about work, - wrinkled, like from dental pain.
"Nadia, this is your life, not her," Mom reminded. "Sometimes I have the impression that you are married to Karina, mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law couple," she joked.
"You know, I also have," I was missing in response. Of course, my barely audible squeak about the exit to work drowned in a quiet (screaming does not allow anything), but the murder of the bemarks.

Do you have nothing to do?! - She stuck, whims. - Look, the apartment is half empty, the furniture has not yet been purchased, who should a family nest vit?
- I will vite, - hastily agreed.
- That's done. I would help you, but we just organize a meeting of classmates, so I will be busy.
"Nothing terrible," I hardly hid my joy. - Clean myself, I assure you! "Sorry, I looked, but I said quite firmly:" And when I finish with apartment arrangement, I will immediately return to work. "

Let's see, - the mother-in-law said the mother-in-law. - Everything happens in life. It is not known that tomorrow will be ...

The next week I dedicated to furniture stores. Prices were just crazy. But since I had no need to save me, I quickly bought everything that I liked. And the apartment finally turned into the most present cozy family nest.

Naduha, I like it so much! - admired Boria.
But Karina new furniture, to put it mildly, did not approve.
"I don't know how you could choose such a color," she shook her head. - Dark, like in the cellar.
- It is intimate, "Boria joked to discharge the situation.
- Intimate should be in the bedroom. What kind of terrible buffet in the kitchen? Under the old days, yes? It has not been fashionable for a long time!
"I didn't chase a fashion" I broke out, "I bought what I had to do. This is our home.
"Your house is, but our money," the mother-in-law said the mother-in-law. And I was forced to bite the language.

The former boss called another morning, to find out if she would take me back. Fortunately, it turned out that there is a vacancy. I did not have time to put the phone, as the call rang.
- Nadya? I recorded us with you on a manicure for twelve, "the mother-in-law said.
- Unfortunately, it will not work. I come back to work.
"Hope," Karina said. - Do not make nonsense. You are not going to stand behind the counter and serve buyers? If you fit it so much, I will tell my husband to take you into my construction company.
- But I do not understand construction.
- So what? But you will be supervised and from Gennady and Bornka. And pay you a good salary.

"I don't need to" put anything "! - I mentally exploded. - And I can earn! "

I think my husband and wife cannot work together. Professional activity should not be mixed with personal, otherwise the company will discuss the company's affairs, "said the phone.
- Erunda! - cut off Karina. - It's just ridiculous fiction!

In order not to bring to the conflict, I tried to joke:
- I do not want Boris me command.
It seemed to me that I expressed my opinion clearly and clearly, so I was very surprised when the husband asked the day later:
- Did you really decide to work in our company?
- What? Why do you think so? - I instantly strained.
"Mom said," he pulled me to himself. - It's good. I have so rarely see you, at least we will be together.
- You think? - pressed to the native shoulder.
- Well, of course. In addition, I trust you, I know that you will not bring.
"I don't know what to say," thought over his words.
- Do not say anything. Father also "for".
- Have you already discussed this with him? Do not even enlist my consent? And if I refuse?
"But my mother said you want to work."
- I want ... But ... everything turned so ... unexpectedly ...
- In short, if you think up, tomorrow is eight lift.

I once again went on a compromise. But barely entered the case, as discovered that ... pregnant!
"Boria, we will have a child," said her husband.
- Super! - he wrapped in delight. - I will be my father!

Borina Parents were also delighted. Even mother-in-law, although before she persistently advised me to postpone maternity.
"I don't worry about anything," she said. - We will help you. Tomorrow I will write you down for consultation to your gynecologist.
- But I was already at the doctor. In our district polyclinic.
- In the free consultation? Do you want to save on the baby?! I can afford to find for my daughter-in-law and grandson of the best doctor.

I had to agree. Why should the relationship, if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are happy with the kid waiting. Karina accompanied me every time I visited the gynecologist. No objections listened. He said, care for grandson is her main duty. And she insisted that I leave work, without waiting for the decree. I did not even assume that I again find a prisoner of good intentions.

But now she had a weighty argument - grandson, his health, and I reluctantly obeyed the whims of the mother-in-law. A month before the alleged childbirth, Borina, parents brought a bright blue stroller.
- Most expensive! - Karina boasted.
Cooking his teeth, I did not admit that I have long looked after another. The mother-in-law interpreted my facial expression in its own way:
- I know that buying in advance - bad sign, but we, and modern people, do not suffer from superstitions.
"And yet I ask you before the birth of a child nothing else to buy," I said as calmer.
- Let's see ... - mother-in-law responded carelessly.

My request was brazenly ignored. Even before childbirth, the closet was scored by children's things.
"In the hospital, I agreed with everyone," Karina said. - paid, of course, a lot, but nothing sorry for the grandson. Births passed without complications. At the time limit, I gave birth to a healthy carappusion weighing four kilograms. Soon I was discharged.

Houses met us ... Karina.

Must Pushi, she stuck it. - What a handsome man! Copy of Boruschka in childhood. Oh, you are my sun, my Bogdanchik.

I looked at my husband expressively.
- Mom, what is Bogdanchik? - He understood my mind correctly.
- We have already chosen a name.
- What do you mean chosen? And they did not consult with me?
- Mom, but generally parents - we, - noticed Boria.
- And I am a grandmother! - Parissed mother-in-law.
- Yeah. Your grandson is Nicholas.
- Did you crazy? You still call Vasya!

I struggled with a mad desire to send her away. But my favorite husband kept himself in his hands.
- Nikolai is very original and extraordinary. You can call him on the French manner - Nicolas.

This variant of the mother-in-law faced.

Nicolas, "she tried the sound. - Not bad.
"That's good," Boris nodded. - And everyone is satisfied.

We won a little victory. But ... My mother-in-law decided that I was too young and inexperienced, and had gained to us.
"Nicolas, look, what a rattle," she sang, bending around the bed. - Will you go to my grandmother on the handles?
"It will get used to the hands, it will be broken," I noticed.
- Let it get used to. To the grandmother to indulge. I suffered, counting myself up to one hundred, so as not to break.
- And now we redeem our boy, because mommy is still weak. Yes? Yes? - She Sysyukal.
- I cope with myself.
- Relax, my dear, I'll do everyone.

My irritation threatened about to spill over the edge, so I gathered with forces for a serious conversation.

You see Karina, the point is ... - I started it herself. - You are taking us too. I would prefer that you pre-warn me about my visits, the painful was born.
- What do I prevent?!
"No, Lord, of course, no," flashed. "But I would like to somehow bring up order, to get into the apartment, and not take you in such a mess," turned out.
"Thank God, you yourself raised this topic," she was attracted. - My opinion is: it is necessary to hire a housekeeper.
- Well, yes, just we lacked it! - I exclaimed.
- What? All my friendly housekeeper friends. And my Alevtina twice a week cleans.
- I am able to take care of the house itself!

Yes? - she demonstratively looked around on the sides. - It only seems to you, dear. Tomorrow I will send Aleutin to you.
"And let's be a cook call," I cheered.
- Cook? - The mother-in-law adopted my words for a clean coin. - No problem. I'll talk to friends, may advise ...
- Karina, I joked!
"My dear, in every joke, you know ..." she remarked deeply. And already in the door, throwing fur palatine on the shoulders, said: - And you still need to find a good nanny. I looked into her eyes, hoping that this humor. But, alas ...
"Housekeeper, cook, nanny ..." I listed. - It remains to hire a woman who will instead to fulfill married duties.
"Nadia," Karina pressed her lips, "you are not ashamed?" I try, and you always all unhappy. And it is instead of gratitude!
- I am very grateful to you, right! But why hire all these aunts? What, then, will I do?
"At least, at least, you will start to look at yourself," she followed me with an arrogant look. - The woman should always look great. And you? Look at yourself ... Maternity motherhood, but stretched on the knees sports pants, these t-shirts in spots ... fi!

So I have never humiliated me. Yes, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law looked in different ways ...

Do not be offended, Milka, and think about what I told you, "she threw it finally.

Hazard splashed by evil tears. As if felt my mood, I woke up and cried my kneon. I calmed down my son, fed, changed the diaper, wrapped the child in a warm blanket and ... I went to complain to my mother. She listened to my moanies, thought and said:

You like Don Quixote - fight with windmills.
- Do you mean that no avail? I understand it myself. But I do not know what to do.
- Talk to my husband. Surely he is not aware of what is happening.
- Do not know, - agreed. - I try not to ship it with my own homework.
- These are not your personal problems, and your common. Therefore, my advice to you - enlisted Boris's support. Or at least figure out what he thinks about this. Maybe he is on the side of the mother.

But the husband decided to support my point of view.
"Saddy, I also don't really like that my mother dictates us its conditions and gives valuable instructions." But I linked, I thought everything suits you.
- Not satisfied!
"So we will build your family as we consider it necessary." Do not want a housekeeper? Well, it is not necessary! On Saturday, I will be at home, I will help to remove. And nothing terrible if you do not have time to cook dinner. I understand everything, Kolya requires attention. I will come from work, I myself, something forgotten, I'm not hard.
- Angry, I love you so much, "hugged her husband.

Having learned that in spite of her will I refuse hired workers, my mother-in-law was offended and did not communicate with me for two weeks. Even to spend the grandson never looked. She did not know that I accepted another epochal decision - to go to work. Discussed this with Borea, explained that I want to communicate with people, somehow develop.
"I'm not against," the husband said. - But how to be with Kake? In kindergarten to give him, probably early.
- Yes, what kind of kindergarten, the child is still small.
- Then you have to come up with some kind of way out.
"And I already invented," said branding tone.
- Seriously? Enlighten. I suppose, in Nyan stopped?
"Not-a," smiled radiant. - I will try to negotiate with my mother, she just came to retire. I will take her in the morning knee, and in the evening - to take.
- And I have no desire to connect my mom?
- Your? - Repeated, surprised. - I somehow did not think about it. But it's worth trying.

My mom is terribly delighted when I said that I am going to trust her grandson.
- What happiness! She threw her hands. - Nague, yes, I am ready to sit with him and on weekends!
"This is only if we are with my husband to fit into a romantic weekend," I giggled.
- Digy how much you want! - Mom exclaimed.
- In fact, I still need to talk to Karina. You see, she is exactly the same grandmother as you. And probably also wants to look after the grandson.
- Clear. I'm drawn up, - Mom grinntly grinned.
- Nothing like this. I just find out what she thinks about this, and most likely, Nikolai will be with you, the other week is in Karina. So that no one is offended by anyone. And then we only did not take the grandmother's wars because of your beloved grandson.

But mother-in-law, having heard me, cleared, immediately realizing that everything was crying for me to go to work.
- What work, if you do not have enough time at the hairdresser?
- Karina, let me decide ...
- Decide! On health! How much will fit! - She screamed like a bazaar aunt, where only the whole gloss was fived. - But we will be taken into account, we will not help you! I will not give a penny! So know! It was impatient to work!

She renounced until the heavy entrance door slammed behind us.
Now in my perception, this chic oak door has become a kind of symbol. All the past was left behind her, there in the past. And ahead of me awaits a new happy life!

I went to work. The mother-in-law declared a cold war. Beetor in secret whispering: "Do not mind, she will move." I smiled. But the smile came out not too much fun. Unpleasant when in the family conflict.

Passed a couple of weeks. And yesterday, Mom took the word from me to be silent (at least until the time before time) and shared the secret:
- Today Karina came. She misses her grandson. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be friends!

I was easy to easily - as if the heavy stone fell away from the soul. I realized that it was very soon all stupid, and no one would be offended at anyone.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law - a story of life

2015 ,. All rights reserved.

I met (then a lonely young mother with a three-year-old son in his arms) on the life path of a good guy. He called me to the registry office. Week calling, month, year, second, third. What, I say, cute, lack you in life? And so, they say well live well. No, give him a stamp in the passport. Persuaded. Wedding, rings - everything like people.

- A woman, in principle, not evil, but from those who are popular with the name "Mernotay": to shout, quarrel, the site to sneak is a favorite and usual thing. At the same time, she had no evil for a long time and no resentment for the sinus was hidden, but as if the ears, "arguments" opened the opponent immediately. I never hurt me (my husband and my parents with his parents in the apartment after the wedding lived), conflicts, and it was not. But for the eyes on the shop at home, all the discontent of the mother-in-law was regularly poured with a rapid flow. Let him say, I think, not my language about the teeth beats, corns earn. And where did you meet the mother-in-law, satisfied with the daughter-in-law?

I got pregnant and for the last period gave birth to a beauty daughter. And my husband by that time completely fell off. From mom's hands. And dishes for the whole family, as it was before, did not wash (only his plates in the sink wrinkles, as the wife taught). And the socks are dirty not under the bed site fuss, and in the basket for linen wears, does not wait, when his woman "fragrant" ruffles rake. And the series Mamina for evening tea does not want to discuss more. A scoundrel, in one word, traitor and a modifier. Grandmas in the yard so unanimously and threatened - a scoundrel and a class.

Beetroot, staying in Lutoo sorrow, decided to return everything to the circles. In the very matter - it is necessary to reveal the Son of the Senior and Beloved to the usual state! She picked up and drove to relatives in the outback. Briefly left, something about a week was absent. The joyful one returned, the house flies, chirbing, does not express complaints. Thank God, I think, disappeared, rested, maybe there will be no one to worry and nervous.

Approximately a week after the arrival of the mother-in-law, I heard her conversation with a mammy. Baba Katya for something, apparently, read my mother-in-law - his daughter, and she looked out loudly, they say, the site that you, mom, say that, that grandma faithful and nothing bad from the deed will not happen. Yeah, I think it is "b-fh" No South!

I started cleaning in the house and somehow decided to disassemble the winter twists that stood on the mezzanine, located above the corridor in front of the kitchen. My banks, dust, wipe and suddenly find it from the very edge, at the door ... Egg. Normal such chicken egg. Hands for the egg-kestrometer I do not take - but how right now from there something will hatch! He took the towel, pulled out "treasure" and the family to the Council convened. Classic everyone escaped even quoted - it's like, I say, your mother, I apologize, understand?! What is it, I say, for undeclared products here are folded? Isn't that atomic war in the case of atomic war?!

The beetroot of something else ran away, drove out, painted flames. It says from the village, homemade. Like, brought a whole package, put on the mezzanine, and the site one, visible, and revealed. I popularly explained that there is no refrigerator in the kitchen, so there was no need unconventional chicken products. "Nothing said the fish, only the tail on the water splashed."

I looked at my brazen gray eyes right into my embarrassed relative and I say: "While I am living, no one can hurt me or my children. No one! " I wanted, of course, add another laughter to the demonic and scrub, as good eeh from the cartoon: "You will remember the eyelids!", But I decided not to exacerbate.

Husband, wanting to discharge the situation, the egg is ill-faced with my hands I took and went somewhere on the street. And I, remembering the advice of my beloved Gabli, smiled mentally and sincerely wished happiness and health to the one who evils against me. I told me my grandmother: "You, granddaughter, forgive them yes, imagine that the mirror around you grows up. Pure, dew washed and dried siny. " So I imagined such a mirror and hid myself and the kids.

Some time they lived, and suddenly it rushed, everything rolled. The coarser began to drink as not to himself, so that soon he looked at the hospital with a stroke, his hand took himself and dries in his eyes. My father fell into a terrible accident, burned hard, barely saved. Husband in the hospital is running down, barely for the light did not go - the diagnosis could not be diagnosed, and the disease at this time is a cardiac valve gnaw. The younger brother of a husband, a healthy guy, as if with the coils flew: began to get involved in any small conflict, the bit was not once, Bit cruelly, almost to death, the police had gained a visit.

In general, all men in two families were injured so that the enemy would not wish. All but my sins. I approached the site then somehow for mother-in-law and I say: "See, mom, how does your egg have it? I warned you after all I am - the stronger in me plunge, the more you will be! And the grandmother, your rustic squeezed somewhere, did not disobey you, and our men. I would regret my relatives! It would be necessary to fix the error. "

I left the mother-in-law. Again for a while. And on returning to the church began to walk, prayers reads, Icacon poured me so that I, it means, the beads embroidered them. I embroidered. With joy and rest in the soul.

We have a world since then in the family. We live with your mother-in-law, we now separately, on holidays visit each other we go. And the mother-in-law when she still overcomes the desire to express my discontent to me, it is unwritten in time, silent. I heard only sometimes, how mumbles under the nose, leaving: "Witch!". And I laugh only. Maybe the site is really witch. Only kind and happy.

Peace and joy to you, mother-in-law!

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